Kute Blackson

We sex it away, drink it away, smoke it away, you know, social media it away, work it away, you know, travel it away, shop it away so that we don't have to feel the pain. And that just perpetuates the dynamic even more. And so thirdly, I tell people, feel the pain of the misalignment. Not wallow in it, but just feel it. Don't deny it. Just breathe it and feel it. That starts to process inside.

We sex it away, drink it away, smoke it away, you know, social media it away, work it away, you know, travel it away, shop it away so that we don't have to feel the pain. And that just perpetuates the dynamic even more. And so thirdly, I tell people, feel the pain of the misalignment. Not wallow in it, but just feel it. Don't deny it. Just breathe it and feel it. That starts to process inside.

So now we're in acceptance. Okay. This is what it is. This is the situation. This is what's going on. This is who my partner is. This is who my father is. This is who my kid is. Acceptance. The next phase, people think, oh, after acceptance, what now? A lot of people stay stuck in acceptance. But acceptance... isn't surrender.

So now we're in acceptance. Okay. This is what it is. This is the situation. This is what's going on. This is who my partner is. This is who my father is. This is who my kid is. Acceptance. The next phase, people think, oh, after acceptance, what now? A lot of people stay stuck in acceptance. But acceptance... isn't surrender.

So now we're in acceptance. Okay. This is what it is. This is the situation. This is what's going on. This is who my partner is. This is who my father is. This is who my kid is. Acceptance. The next phase, people think, oh, after acceptance, what now? A lot of people stay stuck in acceptance. But acceptance... isn't surrender.

Surrender, real surrender is like, you can be in acceptance, like, okay, this is who my partner is. This is who my husband is. I don't like who he is. I'm a little pissed off that he's that way. I feel like, I feel it's unfair and I'm going to hold back my love until they change, but I'm not going to leave, but I accept that this is what they are. All right.

Surrender, real surrender is like, you can be in acceptance, like, okay, this is who my partner is. This is who my husband is. I don't like who he is. I'm a little pissed off that he's that way. I feel like, I feel it's unfair and I'm going to hold back my love until they change, but I'm not going to leave, but I accept that this is what they are. All right.

Surrender, real surrender is like, you can be in acceptance, like, okay, this is who my partner is. This is who my husband is. I don't like who he is. I'm a little pissed off that he's that way. I feel like, I feel it's unfair and I'm going to hold back my love until they change, but I'm not going to leave, but I accept that this is what they are. All right.

And so sometimes we're like, I'm not playing, but I'm going to be on the field. And, you know, that's a form of acceptance, a toleration, shall I say. True surrender is the open-hearted participation with the process of life. like when you roll your sleeves up and say, okay, it's raining outside. It sucks that it's raining.

And so sometimes we're like, I'm not playing, but I'm going to be on the field. And, you know, that's a form of acceptance, a toleration, shall I say. True surrender is the open-hearted participation with the process of life. like when you roll your sleeves up and say, okay, it's raining outside. It sucks that it's raining.

And so sometimes we're like, I'm not playing, but I'm going to be on the field. And, you know, that's a form of acceptance, a toleration, shall I say. True surrender is the open-hearted participation with the process of life. like when you roll your sleeves up and say, okay, it's raining outside. It sucks that it's raining.

I want it to go out with my kid, but let's go out and dance in the rain or let's invite the family in for a dinner and into my dinner at home and play games together and connect as a family. And like, let's make the best of this experience and use this experience rather than be used by this experience.

I want it to go out with my kid, but let's go out and dance in the rain or let's invite the family in for a dinner and into my dinner at home and play games together and connect as a family. And like, let's make the best of this experience and use this experience rather than be used by this experience.

I want it to go out with my kid, but let's go out and dance in the rain or let's invite the family in for a dinner and into my dinner at home and play games together and connect as a family. And like, let's make the best of this experience and use this experience rather than be used by this experience.

And so surrender is the open-hearted participation to the process of life that's happening, where it requires two things, the belief and understanding that life is always working for your highest good, even if you can't see it right now. That's number one. Number two, the spiritual understanding that you and I, we are souls. We are souls having a human experience.

And so surrender is the open-hearted participation to the process of life that's happening, where it requires two things, the belief and understanding that life is always working for your highest good, even if you can't see it right now. That's number one. Number two, the spiritual understanding that you and I, we are souls. We are souls having a human experience.

And so surrender is the open-hearted participation to the process of life that's happening, where it requires two things, the belief and understanding that life is always working for your highest good, even if you can't see it right now. That's number one. Number two, the spiritual understanding that you and I, we are souls. We are souls having a human experience.

And as souls having a human experience, we incarnate into this human experience in order to learn, to grow, to evolve. That life is a school for your soul's evolution. And every experience in life, bad, challenging, difficult, heartbreak, divorce, betrayal, everything is part of the curriculum.

And as souls having a human experience, we incarnate into this human experience in order to learn, to grow, to evolve. That life is a school for your soul's evolution. And every experience in life, bad, challenging, difficult, heartbreak, divorce, betrayal, everything is part of the curriculum.

And as souls having a human experience, we incarnate into this human experience in order to learn, to grow, to evolve. That life is a school for your soul's evolution. And every experience in life, bad, challenging, difficult, heartbreak, divorce, betrayal, everything is part of the curriculum.