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Kute Blackson

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
390 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

for your soul's evolution if you really get that you stop seeing life as uh this happened and that happened and resisting it you move to a deeper dimension of asking yourself then you're able to surrender in the experience not necessarily to the situation but in the experience to go huh what is my soul seeking to learn in this experience right now that's the surrender

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

for your soul's evolution if you really get that you stop seeing life as uh this happened and that happened and resisting it you move to a deeper dimension of asking yourself then you're able to surrender in the experience not necessarily to the situation but in the experience to go huh what is my soul seeking to learn in this experience right now that's the surrender

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

for your soul's evolution if you really get that you stop seeing life as uh this happened and that happened and resisting it you move to a deeper dimension of asking yourself then you're able to surrender in the experience not necessarily to the situation but in the experience to go huh what is my soul seeking to learn in this experience right now that's the surrender

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

What is my soul seeking to learn from this messed up relationship? What is my soul seeking to learn from being fired? What is my soul seeking to learn in this situation? The surrender isn't just like, I'm going to sit here in this situation and be a victim and just do nothing. It's like, what is my soul seeking to learn so I can learn the lesson? And I'm going to surrender rather than resisting.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

What is my soul seeking to learn from this messed up relationship? What is my soul seeking to learn from being fired? What is my soul seeking to learn in this situation? The surrender isn't just like, I'm going to sit here in this situation and be a victim and just do nothing. It's like, what is my soul seeking to learn so I can learn the lesson? And I'm going to surrender rather than resisting.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

What is my soul seeking to learn from this messed up relationship? What is my soul seeking to learn from being fired? What is my soul seeking to learn in this situation? The surrender isn't just like, I'm going to sit here in this situation and be a victim and just do nothing. It's like, what is my soul seeking to learn so I can learn the lesson? And I'm going to surrender rather than resisting.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

I'm going to really surrender to learning the lesson where I am. Because when you learn the lesson where you are with who you're with, that's the key that unlocks the lock to the next level of experience. So surrender is that.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

I'm going to really surrender to learning the lesson where I am. Because when you learn the lesson where you are with who you're with, that's the key that unlocks the lock to the next level of experience. So surrender is that.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

I'm going to really surrender to learning the lesson where I am. Because when you learn the lesson where you are with who you're with, that's the key that unlocks the lock to the next level of experience. So surrender is that.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

Between acceptance and surrender, there is a missing face. And here is a secret to surrender that most people miss. Most people never crack open to surrender because they miss the face in the middle. The face in the middle is grieving. Most people miss the face of grieving because you see, surrender is a death. It's a death of your ego. It's a death of who you thought you were.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

Between acceptance and surrender, there is a missing face. And here is a secret to surrender that most people miss. Most people never crack open to surrender because they miss the face in the middle. The face in the middle is grieving. Most people miss the face of grieving because you see, surrender is a death. It's a death of your ego. It's a death of who you thought you were.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

Between acceptance and surrender, there is a missing face. And here is a secret to surrender that most people miss. Most people never crack open to surrender because they miss the face in the middle. The face in the middle is grieving. Most people miss the face of grieving because you see, surrender is a death. It's a death of your ego. It's a death of who you thought you were.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

It's a death of like, A phase of your life like, wow, I'm no longer 20, I'm 30, I'm 40, I'm 50. Wow, it's a death of that phase of one's youth to a different phase of one's life. It's a death of a dream, a death of a job, right? A death of maybe as a parent, like your kid becomes 18, 20, moves on. It's a death of a role. It's a death of something.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

It's a death of like, A phase of your life like, wow, I'm no longer 20, I'm 30, I'm 40, I'm 50. Wow, it's a death of that phase of one's youth to a different phase of one's life. It's a death of a dream, a death of a job, right? A death of maybe as a parent, like your kid becomes 18, 20, moves on. It's a death of a role. It's a death of something.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

It's a death of like, A phase of your life like, wow, I'm no longer 20, I'm 30, I'm 40, I'm 50. Wow, it's a death of that phase of one's youth to a different phase of one's life. It's a death of a dream, a death of a job, right? A death of maybe as a parent, like your kid becomes 18, 20, moves on. It's a death of a role. It's a death of something.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

And so to truly move on into, I'm going to embrace the new. willing to grieve for the old. And most of us never truly let ourselves grieve and we want to move on and surrender. And that's why we can't open our hearts to surrender because we're not truly letting go and grieving and honoring what was. True grieving and honoring what was allows you to fully release and let go.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

And so to truly move on into, I'm going to embrace the new. willing to grieve for the old. And most of us never truly let ourselves grieve and we want to move on and surrender. And that's why we can't open our hearts to surrender because we're not truly letting go and grieving and honoring what was. True grieving and honoring what was allows you to fully release and let go.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

And so to truly move on into, I'm going to embrace the new. willing to grieve for the old. And most of us never truly let ourselves grieve and we want to move on and surrender. And that's why we can't open our hearts to surrender because we're not truly letting go and grieving and honoring what was. True grieving and honoring what was allows you to fully release and let go.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

The challenges in our culture, we tend to avoid grief. We tend to avoid feelings like that. We tend to avoid that because we're afraid it will last forever. We're afraid it will never end. But the thing I would just want people to know is all feelings are temporary. No feeling lasts forever. All feelings that we feel fully with awareness will begin to dissolve.

Creating Confidence with Heather Monahan
Confidence Classic: Finding The COURAGE To Let Go With Kute Blackson Transformational Teacher & Best Selling Author

The challenges in our culture, we tend to avoid grief. We tend to avoid feelings like that. We tend to avoid that because we're afraid it will last forever. We're afraid it will never end. But the thing I would just want people to know is all feelings are temporary. No feeling lasts forever. All feelings that we feel fully with awareness will begin to dissolve.