Lauri Loewenberg

So the meaning behind sex dreams, it's rarely about a physical union you want, but more about a psychological union you need.

So if you get one of those dreams about someone you would never touch with a 10-foot pole, don't run into the shower, it's okay.

It just means that there's something about that person that you want to take on as your own.

Maybe there's something about their personality, something about their life.

Or maybe you even had a conversation with them where you connected in some way.

So sex dreams are about connection.

Maybe you've connected intellectually or emotionally with them.

Or maybe there's something about them you want to connect into yourself.

That makes sense.

I mean, it can.

I mean, if you know that you are really into this person and then you have that dream, you're just safely exploring the possibilities.

And the reason why we orgasm actually is because the body does not know the difference between a dream event and a waking event.

No.

Right.

It just happens.

Yeah.

As a woman, you are far more likely to complete the dream actually in real life.

That's so interesting.

And men rarely do.

And thankfully, because it's way more messy.