Lee Hopkins
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252 appearances
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first heard Apr 2026
last heard 25 Apr
Lee Hopkins’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Because for some people, they really feel...
good about helping other people and they often forget themselves so they they do that and there's nothing wrong with it as long as you feel fulfilled with giving as much as you can and i i could say that many people end up reaching a breaking point so
There's nothing wrong with it until you figure out until it becomes until something wrong becomes like it's something that you do not desire anymore to do.
Then you help the person.
This is what I found my own personal journey.
You help the person by letting go.
They're not learning a lesson from you about how to set their own boundaries.
They're not learning how to keep boundaries because they keep crossing yours and you keep allowing them.
You're teaching them how to be worse to others in the world, essentially, from that dynamic.
They're not learning what a strong boundary is.
because you're not holding one, and you're also draining yourself.
This is me talking about my own life experiences.
I've learned that I've just been drained and drained and drained, trying to keep something that wasn't working.
And so now what I do, because I've spent so many years doing this, a couple decades or so, doing this, not setting my own boundaries, not being strong about it.
I know I...
Any situation or any relationship I get into or connection I have, I know what I want, my needs, negotiables, and nevers.
I figure those out before I get to this place.
So there's some self-discovery that helps me understand how I'm going to feel when I cross a boundary or when somebody crosses a boundary.
I do that work.
And you'd mentioned therapy.
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