Lee Hopkins
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252 appearances
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first heard Apr 2026
last heard 25 Apr
Lee Hopkins’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Boundaries, I like to say that they're the shape of you.
They tell people how you want to be treated.
You have to teach people how you want to be treated, what you want from them.
And they get to respond.
You can't control their response.
So it's your responsibility to say, hey, you know what?
I'm a little too busy or I'm a little too tired to come out tonight.
I don't want to talk on the phone.
I'm not interested in texting.
I'd rather go to this movie instead of that movie.
It is you who is the one who needs to say what you want from the other person.
In the closer relationships, the people who value how you feel and respect that will do the internal work as a team.
It's a team situation now because they are doing their own work on their side to meet you where you are.
So they value their relationship.
They know that you don't want to go to this movie, but they really want to go.
So instead of pestering you, trying to get you to go to the movie that you don't want to go to, they will sit with their own disappointment and then they will not push it on you.
Or they will go find someone else to go to the movie with, or they won't go at all, whatever it is that they're going to do.
But essentially, it is respecting that the teamwork comes in because you have said what you wanted, you'd said what you needed from them, they heard you, they dealt with their own frustration, sadness, disappointment, whatever it was, and then they came back to your boundary and respected it.
They didn't try to cross it because they value...
what your relationship could be if they don't cross that boundary.
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