Lee Hopkins
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252 appearances
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1 series
first heard Apr 2026
last heard 25 Apr
Lee Hopkins’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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You know, one of the things that I grew up believing is that, well, you have to make everybody happy.
And so if somebody came to me and said that to me, Philip, that boundary isn't going to work for me, I would adjust because that's what I've done in the past many, many times.
And now I think of it as, you know,
as an analogy, like I'm looking for something specific.
Like when I think about boundaries, I'm looking for something specific, specific actions and behaviors from people.
And I have a right, I don't want to say right, but it is my need and it is for me.
And nobody can tell me that I can't have these things.
Let's just say that.
So nobody can tell me that I can't have them.
And so I use this analogy thinking that, well, if I was a baker and I wanted to connect to somebody who also baked,
I want to make sure that they could bake.
And so I wouldn't be frustrated or I would be very frustrated if they told me they could, like they were this kind of person and they couldn't crack an egg.
They didn't know how to make a souffle or they didn't know their way around the kitchen.
I'd be very frustrated with them because they're not doing the things that they said they were going to be able to do, or at least the things that I said I wanted from them.
They're not doing that.
And so they come into the space and I'm like, well, okay, it looks like you didn't know how to crack an egg.
There's shells all in the cake that we made.
Well, you know, you don't know how to mix anything.
You don't know where the ingredients are.
You don't know how to measure anything.
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