Lee Hopkins

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252 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Apr 2026 last heard 25 Apr

Lee Hopkins’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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I need you to tell me that I did a good job.

I need you to not show up at 4 o'clock when I said that, hey, I'm busy at 4 o'clock.

I need you to not do that.

So those are my needs.

And then the in the between is the negotiables.

Those are things that those are actions and behaviors that people can do that won't bother you one way or another.

They might text you after 10 o'clock, but you didn't say it's not a big deal.

You just won't answer.

You know, the big deal, right?

So it's not a deal breaker.

So I call these my needs, negotiables and nevers.

And they help me really create an understanding of

about what kind of relationships that I'm going to have with other people.

So I'm going to get angry if you do something I never want you to do.

I will.

But I know I never want that again, so it's easy for me to say, hey.

No connection anymore.

If I need something from you, and you do it, I'm going to be very happy.

I'll be joyful with these boundaries, with these connections.

So that's how I look at it.

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