Leila Hormozi
👤 PersonAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Yeah. And I didn't, I mean, geez, I didn't have all the resources I have now when I was learning this. And by the way, money doesn't help you learn how to regulate your emotions. I mean, once you have money, you've got lawsuits, you've got people trying to take your money. You've got people trying to steal your money. I mean, it's just same problems. They just look different. Um, and bigger. Yeah.
Yeah. And I didn't, I mean, geez, I didn't have all the resources I have now when I was learning this. And by the way, money doesn't help you learn how to regulate your emotions. I mean, once you have money, you've got lawsuits, you've got people trying to take your money. You've got people trying to steal your money. I mean, it's just same problems. They just look different. Um, and bigger. Yeah.
Yeah, that's the first truth I would say.
Yeah, that's the first truth I would say.
You know, I think so many women, I actually, I met with, when I first started making content, I met with a creator, I'll just say, somebody who many, quite a famous person who had a wife who also made content in the space. And I said, like, do you have any advice for me? Because I want to make content because I think that it would help me get the right people on my team.
You know, I think so many women, I actually, I met with, when I first started making content, I met with a creator, I'll just say, somebody who many, quite a famous person who had a wife who also made content in the space. And I said, like, do you have any advice for me? Because I want to make content because I think that it would help me get the right people on my team.
I think that it's something I've wanted to do. It's like, I want to help people avoid the things that I have learned. But like, what would you say? And this person and one other person that were very large male influencers said the same thing. They were like, you just can't care so much how you look. And I was like, what do you mean?
I think that it's something I've wanted to do. It's like, I want to help people avoid the things that I have learned. But like, what would you say? And this person and one other person that were very large male influencers said the same thing. They were like, you just can't care so much how you look. And I was like, what do you mean?
And they're both like, you know what stopped my wife is she just won't be recorded without any makeup on. And I was like, huh. And so, you know, I've thought about that and I really recognize it. It's like, I like to have my hair and makeup done, but I'm not going to make it a necessity to get things done.
And they're both like, you know what stopped my wife is she just won't be recorded without any makeup on. And I was like, huh. And so, you know, I've thought about that and I really recognize it. It's like, I like to have my hair and makeup done, but I'm not going to make it a necessity to get things done.
Like we do vlogging where it's like, you know, it's like they're vlogging me and I'm like, yeah, I do not look good.
Like we do vlogging where it's like, you know, it's like they're vlogging me and I'm like, yeah, I do not look good.
You're still like, yeah, right. But the thing that I've realized is if I act the opposite of that. So if I allow people to capture me without makeup, if I don't wear makeup to work every day, if I don't do my hair and look perfect every day, then the thoughts of judgment start to get less loud.
You're still like, yeah, right. But the thing that I've realized is if I act the opposite of that. So if I allow people to capture me without makeup, if I don't wear makeup to work every day, if I don't do my hair and look perfect every day, then the thoughts of judgment start to get less loud.
And so I think for a lot of women, we're so feared, we're so fearful of being judged for not upholding the standards that society puts on us. And it's not the standards that are the problem. It's the fear of the standards and the judgment that we put on ourselves about them. You know, men also have standards that they fear to fail or fear that they're not living up to. Everyone does.
And so I think for a lot of women, we're so feared, we're so fearful of being judged for not upholding the standards that society puts on us. And it's not the standards that are the problem. It's the fear of the standards and the judgment that we put on ourselves about them. You know, men also have standards that they fear to fail or fear that they're not living up to. Everyone does.
I think that just for women, the ones that hold them back are the ones that I look at and I just say, like, is it making it harder or easier for me to achieve my goals if I judge myself for this?
I think that just for women, the ones that hold them back are the ones that I look at and I just say, like, is it making it harder or easier for me to achieve my goals if I judge myself for this?
And for me, usually it makes it harder to achieve my goals if I'm judging myself every moment that I'm on camera, every moment that I'm making content because I see those women, it's like they can put out a lot less. And when you put out a lot less content and you're not able to show up in front of your team unless you look a certain way and you do all these things, well then,
And for me, usually it makes it harder to achieve my goals if I'm judging myself every moment that I'm on camera, every moment that I'm making content because I see those women, it's like they can put out a lot less. And when you put out a lot less content and you're not able to show up in front of your team unless you look a certain way and you do all these things, well then,