LeoSkepi

We trying to have a good time. Me, you, and Fiona. And Fiona's dumb ass keeps running to the pool. As soon as we don't have our eyes on her, she goes running to the pool. Because what happens? We come running after her to save her. Or if she jumps in, we jump in and get her. And we save her. Okay. The level of exhaustion it takes for me and you to have somebody like Fiona in our life.

We trying to have a good time. Me, you, and Fiona. And Fiona's dumb ass keeps running to the pool. As soon as we don't have our eyes on her, she goes running to the pool. Because what happens? We come running after her to save her. Or if she jumps in, we jump in and get her. And we save her. Okay. The level of exhaustion it takes for me and you to have somebody like Fiona in our life.

This is like an incessant, very draining dynamic. This person, Fiona over here, she knows don't go in the water. She knows it. Let's say she's allergic to the fucking water, whatever it is, because to say, oh, you can just learn how to swim. No, she's allergic to this water. Every time she gets in it, she don't know how to swim and it gives her hives, okay?

This is like an incessant, very draining dynamic. This person, Fiona over here, she knows don't go in the water. She knows it. Let's say she's allergic to the fucking water, whatever it is, because to say, oh, you can just learn how to swim. No, she's allergic to this water. Every time she gets in it, she don't know how to swim and it gives her hives, okay?

She just keeps running into this dam pool. I just love it so bad, you guys, you have no clue. And me and you over here sitting here, We cannot relax while Fiona is in our life. While we love Fiona and care about her, we cannot relax because anytime we sit down at this little pool, anytime we do not have our attention 100% on her, she's throwing herself back into danger.

She just keeps running into this dam pool. I just love it so bad, you guys, you have no clue. And me and you over here sitting here, We cannot relax while Fiona is in our life. While we love Fiona and care about her, we cannot relax because anytime we sit down at this little pool, anytime we do not have our attention 100% on her, she's throwing herself back into danger.

Now, the dynamic with somebody like Fiona is going to flip because... We're going to be constantly running to save her, trying to talk to her. This is why you shouldn't go back. This is why you shouldn't go jump in and why do you feel now? Why do you keep going? We could sit here and talk to her blue in the face. We're going to be there for her. We're going to go save her.

Now, the dynamic with somebody like Fiona is going to flip because... We're going to be constantly running to save her, trying to talk to her. This is why you shouldn't go back. This is why you shouldn't go jump in and why do you feel now? Why do you keep going? We could sit here and talk to her blue in the face. We're going to be there for her. We're going to go save her.

And she's getting a big sense of connection. She's getting a weird childhood wound parented by having somebody like us look after her because we're our attention is on her 24 seven. And she takes it as the reassurance that we love her. A lot of people get caught up in these dynamics and I've been in them before.

And she's getting a big sense of connection. She's getting a weird childhood wound parented by having somebody like us look after her because we're our attention is on her 24 seven. And she takes it as the reassurance that we love her. A lot of people get caught up in these dynamics and I've been in them before.

And I want to give this example so cutthroat and just straight up because people need to quit with this shit. So somebody like Fiona, going back to this water, going back to this toxic relationship or whatever the hell she's doing, she knows she don't need to be doing. She's allergic to water, keeps running back to it. Me and you are going to get so fed up one day because we cannot live our life.

And I want to give this example so cutthroat and just straight up because people need to quit with this shit. So somebody like Fiona, going back to this water, going back to this toxic relationship or whatever the hell she's doing, she knows she don't need to be doing. She's allergic to water, keeps running back to it. Me and you are going to get so fed up one day because we cannot live our life.

We can't enjoy anything because our attention is stolen by Fiona. She's a liability. And our love for her will turn to frustration and just like annoyance because we're like, no matter what we do, we could chain this bitch down to this tanning chair and she's still going to bite her way through and go jump in the water. We don't get a minute to relax.

We can't enjoy anything because our attention is stolen by Fiona. She's a liability. And our love for her will turn to frustration and just like annoyance because we're like, no matter what we do, we could chain this bitch down to this tanning chair and she's still going to bite her way through and go jump in the water. We don't get a minute to relax.

Fiona's way of feeling connected to us destroys us and ruins our entire life. So there's going to come a day where we say, you know what, Fiona? Jump in. And we're going to throw our hands up. And that's the day Fiona is going to walk up to the edge of that pool, look back, and be like, wait. Nobody's coming to save me from hurting myself. Nobody's coming to... Wait, what?

Fiona's way of feeling connected to us destroys us and ruins our entire life. So there's going to come a day where we say, you know what, Fiona? Jump in. And we're going to throw our hands up. And that's the day Fiona is going to walk up to the edge of that pool, look back, and be like, wait. Nobody's coming to save me from hurting myself. Nobody's coming to... Wait, what?

Her sense of connection will be severed and she ain't gonna jump back in that fucking pool. People play stupid like they don't know what they're doing. Fiona got a lot more out of that whole dynamic of jumping back into the toxic relationship and jumping back into that deep end of the pool of the water she's allergic to than just going into that. She didn't love that water.

Her sense of connection will be severed and she ain't gonna jump back in that fucking pool. People play stupid like they don't know what they're doing. Fiona got a lot more out of that whole dynamic of jumping back into the toxic relationship and jumping back into that deep end of the pool of the water she's allergic to than just going into that. She didn't love that water.

She didn't love that relationship. She loved how connected she felt and how looked after and safe she felt. when we had our full attention on her to protect her from it. That performative victim shit, I can't stand it. And anybody, if you notice and you can recognize, oh my God, I'm doing that, don't do that because it will make people hate you. Like, the love will turn to hate.

She didn't love that relationship. She loved how connected she felt and how looked after and safe she felt. when we had our full attention on her to protect her from it. That performative victim shit, I can't stand it. And anybody, if you notice and you can recognize, oh my God, I'm doing that, don't do that because it will make people hate you. Like, the love will turn to hate.