Leslie Liao

I want to be in peace.

And I want to reflect on the moments that are important.

And I think the older you get, you have more clarity on which moments those exactly are.

And I think it's just too fast-paced and furious when you're in your teens and your 20s.

You don't care.

Yeah, it's fast and furious.

One thousand percent.

I just I just can't imagine having children when I was young.

I love having them when I'm old and I love being married when I'm older, too, because now I also know which hill to die on, which is none of them, by the way, Leslie, none of them.

Astrid wins every conversation, rightfully so.

It's nice to not give a fuck.

Who cares?

Don't give fucks.

It's nice.

I learned about the important things to give a fuck about in my 30s, then repeatedly did stupid shit until I turned 42.

And then when I turned 42, I had it all figured out.

and i still have to keep doing keep going and if i was in my 20s i would not have handled that as healthy and gracefully right you know we've talked about this with a lot of people that have been on the show it's that it's it's you can get 45 people that come up to you and say oh you're so wonderful so funny love the set watched you on instagram whatever you're hilarious but when you get

five detractors.

It's those five detractors that really emotionally affect you.

At least, and for me too, it's like, you know, I can get all these people blowing smoke up my ass, I don't believe them.