Lewis Howes

What are we doing when we're saying that?

Whether it's true or not true.

Interesting.

It's like an explosion.

It's like you have to have a death, an explosion, a bomb almost to go off.

Oh, man.

It's so interesting.

I was telling someone on my team this a few weeks ago, that in the different seasons of my life, from 18 until now, I have had all these amazing experiences from school to sports teams, to moving to new cities, to finding new groups and communities.

And a lot of them I've

outgrown in certain ways or just transitioned out of.

Maybe not outgrown, but just I've gone to do other things and continue to try to evolve.

I'm not saying I'm better than, but I've continued to try to evolve and let go of the old me

And some of them don't like it.

And I lose friends in the process of changing myself, reinventing myself, letting go of old behaviors and stepping into a different identity.

And it's not easy to have communities that you love and people you are familiar with and hanging out with that support you and you go to parties and do whatever activities.

And then all of a sudden they stop returning your calls and they stop texting you back.

And you feel sad, hurt, you know, disappointed.

Yeah.

That you're trying to go somewhere and they don't support that.

It's a scary time.