Lewis Howes

That's why it's lonely at the top.

What suggestions do you give to people then who are shifting their identity, stepping into a new reality for themselves, and their friends don't like it, their family doesn't like it, their communities don't like it, and they're telling them to, hey, come back and hang out with us.

What do you say to them?

And you can only I mean.

I really only have maybe five to seven close friends that I can actually spend meaningful time with, outside of my girlfriend, which I spend a lot of time with, outside of my team, which I'm spending time with during the day.

There's only so many nights and weekends that I can spend quality time with people.

And you may need to open up space to invite in people that are at a, I don't know, an awareness or a support or a level of thinking that you want to be at as well.

Right.

To create that time and connection with.

So it's scary though.

So how old were you when things started to shift psychologically, mentally, and emotionally?

And did you create a bomb?

Was it more of a slow breakthrough for you in shifting this identity and this old skin?

And when you were feeling stuck financially and around money, was it more of a thinking or a feeling in your body and an emotional connection to it?

Or was it both?

Both.

What was the thought and what was the feeling tied to it?

Now, did you resent people with money back then?

Was it like, oh, screw them, they're entitled or they have this or whatever?

Anybody who talked about it, I was really resentful of.