Lewis Howes

And that is out of alignment.

And whenever you're out of alignment with yourself,

You're fracturing yourself psychologically, emotionally, physically.

Something is getting fractured because it's not in alignment anymore.

So we have to reclaim this energy.

We have to reclaim our power back.

And this doesn't make you bad and wrong if you've been doing this for a long time.

It just means this is the awareness

that you needed right now this is the reminder to take your power back to step into that self-respect so that you can create boundaries with others and create respect within them now they may not like you they may not enjoy this they

like the version of you that they can always count on that's gonna discount yourself to help them with something.

They like that version of you, but no more.

You're killing that version of yourself that has been weakened by needing people to like you, to love you, to what you think is respect you, but really they're not respecting you, they're taking advantage of you.

And you're allowing it.

This doesn't make them wrong, they're not bad people.

They've made a request and you've always said yes.

This is just time for you to start doing something differently.

And again, something you would normally say yes to today, I want you to say, I appreciate you for thinking of me, but I can't take that on right now.

You can say it kind.

You can say it with clarity.

You don't have to be aggressive and mean and say, you always take advantage of me and screw you.