Lewis Howes

You don't have to do that.

You can just start shifting things.

And the more you shift, the more the relationship will shift within you and the relationships will shift around you.

And I want you to take this on.

I want you to start taking action right now because you're gonna start to see monumental,

shifts in your life.

You're gonna start to see incredible energy show up inside of you that you've never had before.

You're gonna have incredible power that you've never possessed before because you've never had the courage to use your words courageously to create a healthy boundary.

And this comes from psychological wounds, emotional wounds, never feeling like you were enough, whatever it might be.

I had this for decades, my friend.

I know how this feels and I feel for you if you're feeling this right now.

If you felt like you've been walked on, if you felt like you don't have the respect you want, if you felt like you've been giving and giving and giving and you feel like you're getting taken advantage of, that's how I felt most of my life.

And I did it out of survival for many years to try to survive psychologically.

And I just kept that habit up for a long time.

And it doesn't make me bad and wrong or you bad and wrong if you've been doing it too.

I want a better life for you.

And I'm going to tell you right now, when you start making these decisions to say no, you're going to ruffle some feathers.

So be fair warned.

But that's what's required in order for you to gain self-respect back.

And this is about you getting self-respect first before others give you the respect that you're looking for as well.