Lewis Howes

Contrast frames are when I was in Pentonville.

I mentioned earlier, six months in jail.

And I would be helping the prisoners.

And I would give them man's search for meaning.

Viktor Frankl.

And I would challenge them not to cry with tears of gratitude for the fact they were in Pentonville and not Auschwitz.

Wow.

Reframe.

Everything's reframeable.

And that was a powerful lesson for a lot of them.

And some people, committed to me, don't want to change.

That's okay.

Your job is not to change anyone.

We have no right to change anyone.

I've got no right to walk into somebody else's movie, grab the script writer's pen and start altering their scenes.

Even if you love them and you can see that they're self-harming, they're self-sabotaging, and you want them, you can see the problem.

You don't get to do that.

All you get to be, Lewis, in this world, which is what you're doing with this podcast, which I love, you get to be the example and you get to be the invitation.

You can't be the invitation without being the example, but you also cannot be the imposition.

You can't push.