Lili Padman
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
We have enough info back there to come up with any story.
And perhaps by us focusing on these things that were no doubt gnarly.
We're kind of excluding all the other stuff that would confirm, no, we actually had a very blessed, lucky childhood.
It's more true, yeah.
And weirdly, I'm dealing with it now.
It's really crazy that I can intellectually understand that.
And yet I do have this fear of letting that go.
I know.
I think it's so interwoven in my, quote, identity, that to let go of it would be threatening to my identity.
Whoa, that's huge.
And a lot of what really changes our attachment style happens later.
Well, that's mind-blowing.
It's counterintuitive.
And it's encouraging.
What happens when you dwell on those five?
You know, for me, I had two terrible stepdads.
I had four great teachers.
Why aren't I looking at the four great teachers?
I feel like he used AI, though, to scan all of them.
Oh, no, I listened.