Lindsay

Hi, nice to meet you.

Hi, nice to meet you.

Every time he retells it, I automatically get sick to my stomach and want to cry. Because it was literally the worst day ever. I'm sorry you went through that.

Every time he retells it, I automatically get sick to my stomach and want to cry. Because it was literally the worst day ever. I'm sorry you went through that.

No, not at all. So now we just take it easy on Thanksgiving. We don't go anywhere. Lesson learned. We chill.

No, not at all. So now we just take it easy on Thanksgiving. We don't go anywhere. Lesson learned. We chill.

Nope. Not at all.

Nope. Not at all.

Don't pass that along. Thank you guys so much. Lovely meeting you. Nice to meet you too. All right. Take care. Happy Thanksgiving. Thanks. You too.

Don't pass that along. Thank you guys so much. Lovely meeting you. Nice to meet you too. All right. Take care. Happy Thanksgiving. Thanks. You too.

That was great with us.

That was great with us.

Hi, nice to meet you.

Every time he retells it, I automatically get sick to my stomach and want to cry. Because it was literally the worst day ever. I'm sorry you went through that.

No, not at all. So now we just take it easy on Thanksgiving. We don't go anywhere. Lesson learned. We chill.

Nope. Not at all.

Don't pass that along. Thank you guys so much. Lovely meeting you. Nice to meet you too. All right. Take care. Happy Thanksgiving. Thanks. You too.

That was great with us.

You agree that you're popular?

You agree that you're popular?

Thank you so much.

Thank you so much.

Thank you. In my life, I have, you know, we have a 10 year old daughter and we already see a lot of her friends who have iPads and we already see the, you know, mean girl behavior and social pressure there. And so that is that's concerning. And our son is he'll be 13 in a month. And we are planning on getting him a phone. He's expressed feeling like he doesn't really fit in. He feels left out.

Thank you. In my life, I have, you know, we have a 10 year old daughter and we already see a lot of her friends who have iPads and we already see the, you know, mean girl behavior and social pressure there. And so that is that's concerning. And our son is he'll be 13 in a month. And we are planning on getting him a phone. He's expressed feeling like he doesn't really fit in. He feels left out.

All his friends have phones. He's the only one that doesn't. So it's sort of causing more stress now in the house because of this feeling of him feeling left out and not fitting in. We want him to fit in, so we're going to give him this phone because we feel like it will hopefully be okay. But we have some concerns around that.

All his friends have phones. He's the only one that doesn't. So it's sort of causing more stress now in the house because of this feeling of him feeling left out and not fitting in. We want him to fit in, so we're going to give him this phone because we feel like it will hopefully be okay. But we have some concerns around that.

So is there a way to set limits around the phone and not cause this addiction?

So is there a way to set limits around the phone and not cause this addiction?

No, he has nothing. They both have watches, Apple Watches.

No, he has nothing. They both have watches, Apple Watches.

You agree that you're popular?

Thank you so much.

Thank you. In my life, I have, you know, we have a 10 year old daughter and we already see a lot of her friends who have iPads and we already see the, you know, mean girl behavior and social pressure there. And so that is that's concerning. And our son is he'll be 13 in a month. And we are planning on getting him a phone. He's expressed feeling like he doesn't really fit in. He feels left out.

All his friends have phones. He's the only one that doesn't. So it's sort of causing more stress now in the house because of this feeling of him feeling left out and not fitting in. We want him to fit in, so we're going to give him this phone because we feel like it will hopefully be okay. But we have some concerns around that.

So is there a way to set limits around the phone and not cause this addiction?

No, he has nothing. They both have watches, Apple Watches.

What's your name? So my name is Lindsay and I'm 28.

What's your name? So my name is Lindsay and I'm 28.

Is my felon Jim crush a stalker?

Is my felon Jim crush a stalker?

Not fellow? Correct.

Not fellow? Correct.

So a lot's happened. Um, Im Grunde genommen war es eine einzelne Nacht, wir waren im Gym und etwas kam über mich und ich dachte, ich werde ihm nur sagen, dass ich, weißt du, dass er süß ist, was auch immer. Also habe ich das gemacht und habe ihn komplett abgewandt. Und, weißt du, ich habe einfach weggefahren.

So a lot's happened. Um, Im Grunde genommen war es eine einzelne Nacht, wir waren im Gym und etwas kam über mich und ich dachte, ich werde ihm nur sagen, dass ich, weißt du, dass er süß ist, was auch immer. Also habe ich das gemacht und habe ihn komplett abgewandt. Und, weißt du, ich habe einfach weggefahren.

Aber am nächsten Tag kam er zu mir, er sagte, okay, lass mich den Dumbbell aus meinem Arsch nehmen. Und, weißt du, er hat gesagt, ich möchte zusammen arbeiten. All diese Sachen. Also habe ich gesagt, okay, cool. Wir hatten es am Montag vorgestellt, dass wir zusammen arbeiten werden. So, that time came. It was a three-hour workout. It was insane.

Aber am nächsten Tag kam er zu mir, er sagte, okay, lass mich den Dumbbell aus meinem Arsch nehmen. Und, weißt du, er hat gesagt, ich möchte zusammen arbeiten. All diese Sachen. Also habe ich gesagt, okay, cool. Wir hatten es am Montag vorgestellt, dass wir zusammen arbeiten werden. So, that time came. It was a three-hour workout. It was insane.

I did not.

I did not.

Pumping iron.

Pumping iron.

I don't know.

I don't know.

Durch den ganzen Workout auch. Erinnerst du dich, ich habe diesen Mann nur zwei Tage vorher getroffen. Er war so an der Seite meines Gesichtes zwischen den Workouts und sehr berühmt. Und ich war bereits so, okay, du weißt. Und dann hat er mich so an meinem Auto geküsst, als wir fertig waren.

Durch den ganzen Workout auch. Erinnerst du dich, ich habe diesen Mann nur zwei Tage vorher getroffen. Er war so an der Seite meines Gesichtes zwischen den Workouts und sehr berühmt. Und ich war bereits so, okay, du weißt. Und dann hat er mich so an meinem Auto geküsst, als wir fertig waren.

Ja, ich habe es einfach so gemacht. Und ich bin so, okay, du weißt. Kindlich wie ein Salz? Nein, ich würde das nicht sagen. Okay.

Ja, ich habe es einfach so gemacht. Und ich bin so, okay, du weißt. Kindlich wie ein Salz? Nein, ich würde das nicht sagen. Okay.

No, I didn't love it.

No, I didn't love it.

Then what? So when I go home and I got his last name. So quick little Google search. And there's his rap sheet. He had just got out of prison in October of 2023. So he's still on parole. Und er wollte mir nichts davon erzählen, aber ich habe ihn konfrontiert und ihn darüber gefragt. Was hat er gemacht?

Then what? So when I go home and I got his last name. So quick little Google search. And there's his rap sheet. He had just got out of prison in October of 2023. So he's still on parole. Und er wollte mir nichts davon erzählen, aber ich habe ihn konfrontiert und ihn darüber gefragt. Was hat er gemacht?

Er war sechs Jahre im Gefängnis für Einwanderung in der Heimat und domänische Gewalt gegen eine verheiratete Frau. Das ist, was die Anzeichen sagten. So obviously it does not sound great. He did explain the story to me and I guess I was kind of like, okay, like I can understand. But basically he was dating someone and I mean, I don't mean to cut you off.

Er war sechs Jahre im Gefängnis für Einwanderung in der Heimat und domänische Gewalt gegen eine verheiratete Frau. Das ist, was die Anzeichen sagten. So obviously it does not sound great. He did explain the story to me and I guess I was kind of like, okay, like I can understand. But basically he was dating someone and I mean, I don't mean to cut you off.

Yep.

Yep.

So, anyways, worked out with him a couple times throughout the week, still trying to figure out, I should have cut it off, but I didn't.

So, anyways, worked out with him a couple times throughout the week, still trying to figure out, I should have cut it off, but I didn't.

Und dann kam es zu Freitag und ich war so, dass ich mich mit allem so ungewohnt fühle. Also habe ich ihn als Freund gegründet. Ich habe gesagt, wir können Gymkollegen sein, wir können uns kennenlernen, sagen Hi, was auch immer. Und er war cool mit dem. Aber dann hat seine obsessive Textung weitergegeben. Und ich spreche lange Paragraphen. Er hat mich geupdatet, als er war.

Und dann kam es zu Freitag und ich war so, dass ich mich mit allem so ungewohnt fühle. Also habe ich ihn als Freund gegründet. Ich habe gesagt, wir können Gymkollegen sein, wir können uns kennenlernen, sagen Hi, was auch immer. Und er war cool mit dem. Aber dann hat seine obsessive Textung weitergegeben. Und ich spreche lange Paragraphen. Er hat mich geupdatet, als er war.

You know, I just got home. Hopefully you did, too. Or telling me what he's eating or he's like, I'm breaking out on my chest and I did arms today. Like unsolicited, just like kept going. Sure. Yeah.

You know, I just got home. Hopefully you did, too. Or telling me what he's eating or he's like, I'm breaking out on my chest and I did arms today. Like unsolicited, just like kept going. Sure. Yeah.

Like, where are we at today? So I eventually kind of stopped replying, but he continues every couple of days to like reach out and I should just block him. You know, be done, move gyms. But I did recently start seeing this other guy from Facebook dating. And three days in, he asked me to be his girlfriend. He's just out of a divorce. And I'm like, I don't know.

Like, where are we at today? So I eventually kind of stopped replying, but he continues every couple of days to like reach out and I should just block him. You know, be done, move gyms. But I did recently start seeing this other guy from Facebook dating. And three days in, he asked me to be his girlfriend. He's just out of a divorce. And I'm like, I don't know.

I just need help navigating all of this.

I just need help navigating all of this.

I mean, I did backtrack. At first he caught me off guard and I was like, okay. And then I was like, I absolutely can't do this. I wanted to start avoiding him. But I was like, I'm still trying to figure out if I even like you. So I did say, we need to just date and whatever. But I'm also like, it's just a lot. He's becoming very...

I mean, I did backtrack. At first he caught me off guard and I was like, okay. And then I was like, I absolutely can't do this. I wanted to start avoiding him. But I was like, I'm still trying to figure out if I even like you. So I did say, we need to just date and whatever. But I'm also like, it's just a lot. He's becoming very...

Das ist definitiv das, was ich tue. Es ist wie ein schlechtes, toxisches Ding, das ich versuche zu brechen, das ist wie, ich werde älter, du weißt, viele Freunde sind verheiratet, die ganze Geschichte. Aber dann ist es wie, sobald ich jemanden verheiratet habe, bin ich wie, okay, ich muss das arbeiten. Und es ist wie, nein, ich mache es nicht. Und natürlich höre ich deine Podcasts jede Woche.

Das ist definitiv das, was ich tue. Es ist wie ein schlechtes, toxisches Ding, das ich versuche zu brechen, das ist wie, ich werde älter, du weißt, viele Freunde sind verheiratet, die ganze Geschichte. Aber dann ist es wie, sobald ich jemanden verheiratet habe, bin ich wie, okay, ich muss das arbeiten. Und es ist wie, nein, ich mache es nicht. Und natürlich höre ich deine Podcasts jede Woche.

Ich habe viele Dinge gelernt und wie backtrackt und Boundaries, aber es ist immer ein Werk im Prozess.

Ich habe viele Dinge gelernt und wie backtrackt und Boundaries, aber es ist immer ein Werk im Prozess.

Du bist nicht das.

Du bist nicht das.

Okay. Okay.

Okay. Okay.

All right. All right.

All right. All right.

What's your name? So my name is Lindsay and I'm 28.

Is my felon Jim crush a stalker?

Not fellow? Correct.

So a lot's happened. Um, Im Grunde genommen war es eine einzelne Nacht, wir waren im Gym und etwas kam über mich und ich dachte, ich werde ihm nur sagen, dass ich, weißt du, dass er süß ist, was auch immer. Also habe ich das gemacht und habe ihn komplett abgewandt. Und, weißt du, ich habe einfach weggefahren.

Aber am nächsten Tag kam er zu mir, er sagte, okay, lass mich den Dumbbell aus meinem Arsch nehmen. Und, weißt du, er hat gesagt, ich möchte zusammen arbeiten. All diese Sachen. Also habe ich gesagt, okay, cool. Wir hatten es am Montag vorgestellt, dass wir zusammen arbeiten werden. So, that time came. It was a three-hour workout. It was insane.

I did not.

Pumping iron.

I don't know.

Durch den ganzen Workout auch. Erinnerst du dich, ich habe diesen Mann nur zwei Tage vorher getroffen. Er war so an der Seite meines Gesichtes zwischen den Workouts und sehr berühmt. Und ich war bereits so, okay, du weißt. Und dann hat er mich so an meinem Auto geküsst, als wir fertig waren.

Ja, ich habe es einfach so gemacht. Und ich bin so, okay, du weißt. Kindlich wie ein Salz? Nein, ich würde das nicht sagen. Okay.

No, I didn't love it.

Then what? So when I go home and I got his last name. So quick little Google search. And there's his rap sheet. He had just got out of prison in October of 2023. So he's still on parole. Und er wollte mir nichts davon erzählen, aber ich habe ihn konfrontiert und ihn darüber gefragt. Was hat er gemacht?

Er war sechs Jahre im Gefängnis für Einwanderung in der Heimat und domänische Gewalt gegen eine verheiratete Frau. Das ist, was die Anzeichen sagten. So obviously it does not sound great. He did explain the story to me and I guess I was kind of like, okay, like I can understand. But basically he was dating someone and I mean, I don't mean to cut you off.

Yep.

So, anyways, worked out with him a couple times throughout the week, still trying to figure out, I should have cut it off, but I didn't.

Und dann kam es zu Freitag und ich war so, dass ich mich mit allem so ungewohnt fühle. Also habe ich ihn als Freund gegründet. Ich habe gesagt, wir können Gymkollegen sein, wir können uns kennenlernen, sagen Hi, was auch immer. Und er war cool mit dem. Aber dann hat seine obsessive Textung weitergegeben. Und ich spreche lange Paragraphen. Er hat mich geupdatet, als er war.

You know, I just got home. Hopefully you did, too. Or telling me what he's eating or he's like, I'm breaking out on my chest and I did arms today. Like unsolicited, just like kept going. Sure. Yeah.

Like, where are we at today? So I eventually kind of stopped replying, but he continues every couple of days to like reach out and I should just block him. You know, be done, move gyms. But I did recently start seeing this other guy from Facebook dating. And three days in, he asked me to be his girlfriend. He's just out of a divorce. And I'm like, I don't know.

I just need help navigating all of this.

I mean, I did backtrack. At first he caught me off guard and I was like, okay. And then I was like, I absolutely can't do this. I wanted to start avoiding him. But I was like, I'm still trying to figure out if I even like you. So I did say, we need to just date and whatever. But I'm also like, it's just a lot. He's becoming very...

Das ist definitiv das, was ich tue. Es ist wie ein schlechtes, toxisches Ding, das ich versuche zu brechen, das ist wie, ich werde älter, du weißt, viele Freunde sind verheiratet, die ganze Geschichte. Aber dann ist es wie, sobald ich jemanden verheiratet habe, bin ich wie, okay, ich muss das arbeiten. Und es ist wie, nein, ich mache es nicht. Und natürlich höre ich deine Podcasts jede Woche.

Ich habe viele Dinge gelernt und wie backtrackt und Boundaries, aber es ist immer ein Werk im Prozess.

Du bist nicht das.

Okay. Okay.

All right. All right.

She's been missing since... Breathe.

She's been missing since... Breathe.

And I'm putting this out there because it's going on 10 hours that she's been missing. And I want to put this on blast because I don't think she's out in the desert. I think that she could have been abducted or taken. And it happens, and I'm being real. And I just want to let everybody know, I want to put this on blast because I don't know what to do to consider her a missing person.

And I'm putting this out there because it's going on 10 hours that she's been missing. And I want to put this on blast because I don't think she's out in the desert. I think that she could have been abducted or taken. And it happens, and I'm being real. And I just want to let everybody know, I want to put this on blast because I don't know what to do to consider her a missing person.

You can't do an Amber Alert because she didn't leave in a car, and I don't have a physical description of a vehicle. She's 5'7", about 115 pounds. She has blue eyes and the cutest little nose and a great smile. And her hair goes all the way down.

You can't do an Amber Alert because she didn't leave in a car, and I don't have a physical description of a vehicle. She's 5'7", about 115 pounds. She has blue eyes and the cutest little nose and a great smile. And her hair goes all the way down.

She's been missing since... Breathe.

And I'm putting this out there because it's going on 10 hours that she's been missing. And I want to put this on blast because I don't think she's out in the desert. I think that she could have been abducted or taken. And it happens, and I'm being real. And I just want to let everybody know, I want to put this on blast because I don't know what to do to consider her a missing person.

You can't do an Amber Alert because she didn't leave in a car, and I don't have a physical description of a vehicle. She's 5'7", about 115 pounds. She has blue eyes and the cutest little nose and a great smile. And her hair goes all the way down.