Lindsey Carnick
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315 appearances
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first heard Feb 2025
last heard Feb 2025
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There's no reason to try and tell that person that that's not what they should be doing.
You don't have to do it if you don't need it or that doesn't make you feel good.
But there's no reason to rain on their face.
If you're giving a gift.
If you're absolutely giving a gift.
And it's interesting because you're not just giving a gift to that person.
You're giving a gift to yourself as part of that team.
You are giving yourself a gift of trusting that you are on a team with a teammate who knows themselves and is speaking up for themselves.
And what you don't want is someone who doesn't speak up for what they need.
That's the death knell right there for trust.
Okay.
And sometimes when, you know, we see this on a small level in our relationships all the time, if you start to hammer on your partner, or really anybody with your logic about why they shouldn't feel the way they do about anything, they will stop telling you, they will stop talking, they will stop communicating, because it's no longer forget being a safe space, it's no longer hospitable space, nobody wants that.
And when people stop talking,
It's because they've stopped trusting and that's a slippery slope.
Certainly professional health is really helpful.
It's not to be underrated.
And one of the things that I like to point out to people, whether they're individuals or couples is that
Professional health doesn't mean you have to sign up to go in and see a therapist once a week for the next two years.
That doesn't mean maybe you see somebody four times and you get a little outside perspective and you have somebody go, you know, I can see the forest here and let me give you a description of the tree.
Okay.
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