Lindsey Metselaar

And so men, I think, need to stop being as logical when it comes to dating. And I actually just had a situation like this. I do like this, ask me anything on Fridays on my Instagram. And someone had asked me how Steven, how my husband knew I was the one and when. And I asked him to answer for me. I was like, send me like a little blurb of, you know, how you knew I was one and I will share it.

And I'm actually going to pull it up because he... He was so logical in his first answer that I was cringing from it. I was like, you need to try again, right? His first answer was, I wouldn't say it hit me in a single moment. It was more of a series of moments together over a period of time.

And I'm actually going to pull it up because he... He was so logical in his first answer that I was cringing from it. I was like, you need to try again, right? His first answer was, I wouldn't say it hit me in a single moment. It was more of a series of moments together over a period of time.

And I'm actually going to pull it up because he... He was so logical in his first answer that I was cringing from it. I was like, you need to try again, right? His first answer was, I wouldn't say it hit me in a single moment. It was more of a series of moments together over a period of time.

With each stage of our relationship, my affection for you grew to a place where I loved you an insane amount and I knew I'd found a partner with whom I could squeeze the most out of life. Maybe it was a weird combination of adoration and optimism. That was something I hadn't felt slash how I knew. I was like, listen, that is so sweet, but there is like no, that's so robotic.

With each stage of our relationship, my affection for you grew to a place where I loved you an insane amount and I knew I'd found a partner with whom I could squeeze the most out of life. Maybe it was a weird combination of adoration and optimism. That was something I hadn't felt slash how I knew. I was like, listen, that is so sweet, but there is like no, that's so robotic.

With each stage of our relationship, my affection for you grew to a place where I loved you an insane amount and I knew I'd found a partner with whom I could squeeze the most out of life. Maybe it was a weird combination of adoration and optimism. That was something I hadn't felt slash how I knew. I was like, listen, that is so sweet, but there is like no, that's so robotic.

I was like, there's no like emotion in there. Try again. Yeah.

I was like, there's no like emotion in there. Try again. Yeah.

I was like, there's no like emotion in there. Try again. Yeah.

And he did it again. And he said, and this is so much better, but I'm curious what you think. He said, I was just crazy about you. You were everything I wanted in a partner. There were ups and downs, but the highs were insane and always worth it. I wanted to experience that as long as I could.

And he did it again. And he said, and this is so much better, but I'm curious what you think. He said, I was just crazy about you. You were everything I wanted in a partner. There were ups and downs, but the highs were insane and always worth it. I wanted to experience that as long as I could.

And he did it again. And he said, and this is so much better, but I'm curious what you think. He said, I was just crazy about you. You were everything I wanted in a partner. There were ups and downs, but the highs were insane and always worth it. I wanted to experience that as long as I could.

Like how much better is that when he leaned into his emotions versus like typing out some sort of first we moved in together. Then I felt it was the next step. You know what I mean?

Like how much better is that when he leaned into his emotions versus like typing out some sort of first we moved in together. Then I felt it was the next step. You know what I mean?

Like how much better is that when he leaned into his emotions versus like typing out some sort of first we moved in together. Then I felt it was the next step. You know what I mean?

Totally.

Totally.

Totally.

Yes.