Lindsey Metselaar

thing like I might bring it up to say or like if I were a guy bring it up to say like therapy has been so amazing for me made me realize like that my career wasn't the best for me now I'm in this great career as opposed to being like therapy made me realize that like I really struggled as a kid and like dating has been really hard for me.

thing like I might bring it up to say or like if I were a guy bring it up to say like therapy has been so amazing for me made me realize like that my career wasn't the best for me now I'm in this great career as opposed to being like therapy made me realize that like I really struggled as a kid and like dating has been really hard for me.

thing like I might bring it up to say or like if I were a guy bring it up to say like therapy has been so amazing for me made me realize like that my career wasn't the best for me now I'm in this great career as opposed to being like therapy made me realize that like I really struggled as a kid and like dating has been really hard for me.

It's like you want to just bring that positivity into the date because people are expecting to leave in a good mood from a date, not like being brought down.

It's like you want to just bring that positivity into the date because people are expecting to leave in a good mood from a date, not like being brought down.

It's like you want to just bring that positivity into the date because people are expecting to leave in a good mood from a date, not like being brought down.

Like that's a good frame. Yeah. Focusing on the lesson, focusing on the takeaway is amazing.

Like that's a good frame. Yeah. Focusing on the lesson, focusing on the takeaway is amazing.

Like that's a good frame. Yeah. Focusing on the lesson, focusing on the takeaway is amazing.

Exactly. Yeah, no, I, I think that's great. And like vulnerability shows maturity and shows that like you are ready to find that connection.

Exactly. Yeah, no, I, I think that's great. And like vulnerability shows maturity and shows that like you are ready to find that connection.

Exactly. Yeah, no, I, I think that's great. And like vulnerability shows maturity and shows that like you are ready to find that connection.

I think most men lean towards too logical and I forgot where I was when I learned this but I remember I was in some sort of like WeWork seminar a long time ago and we were being taught about listening and how men listen and how women listen and it was like men usually listen to fix the problem

I think most men lean towards too logical and I forgot where I was when I learned this but I remember I was in some sort of like WeWork seminar a long time ago and we were being taught about listening and how men listen and how women listen and it was like men usually listen to fix the problem

I think most men lean towards too logical and I forgot where I was when I learned this but I remember I was in some sort of like WeWork seminar a long time ago and we were being taught about listening and how men listen and how women listen and it was like men usually listen to fix the problem

Whereas men, sorry, whereas women listen to like be empathetic towards the problem and like hear you and, you know, commiserate or whatnot. And that kind of relates to dating. It's like men lean towards like what makes sense of this. And women tend to lean towards like, what am I feeling about this? And I think that both men and women need to take a page from the other person's book.

Whereas men, sorry, whereas women listen to like be empathetic towards the problem and like hear you and, you know, commiserate or whatnot. And that kind of relates to dating. It's like men lean towards like what makes sense of this. And women tend to lean towards like, what am I feeling about this? And I think that both men and women need to take a page from the other person's book.

Whereas men, sorry, whereas women listen to like be empathetic towards the problem and like hear you and, you know, commiserate or whatnot. And that kind of relates to dating. It's like men lean towards like what makes sense of this. And women tend to lean towards like, what am I feeling about this? And I think that both men and women need to take a page from the other person's book.

And so men, I think, need to stop being as logical when it comes to dating. And I actually just had a situation like this. I do like this, ask me anything on Fridays on my Instagram. And someone had asked me how Steven, how my husband knew I was the one and when. And I asked him to answer for me. I was like, send me like a little blurb of, you know, how you knew I was one and I will share it.

And so men, I think, need to stop being as logical when it comes to dating. And I actually just had a situation like this. I do like this, ask me anything on Fridays on my Instagram. And someone had asked me how Steven, how my husband knew I was the one and when. And I asked him to answer for me. I was like, send me like a little blurb of, you know, how you knew I was one and I will share it.