Lindsey Metselaar

A lot of the time we hear these stories of like, oh, I wasn't like, oh, I was like, you know, still had feelings for my ex or I was dealing with this. But like he kept texting me and like showing that he was interested in me and then like it aligned and worked out. You don't often hear that the other way around.

A lot of the time we hear these stories of like, oh, I wasn't like, oh, I was like, you know, still had feelings for my ex or I was dealing with this. But like he kept texting me and like showing that he was interested in me and then like it aligned and worked out. You don't often hear that the other way around.

Vulnerability is crucial when dating. I think that it's definitely a dance in terms of like when you start to be vulnerable. I would say like dates one to three, you like do like a tiny dive into vulnerability. And then after the third date is when you get a But you could sprinkle it in here and there.

Vulnerability is crucial when dating. I think that it's definitely a dance in terms of like when you start to be vulnerable. I would say like dates one to three, you like do like a tiny dive into vulnerability. And then after the third date is when you get a But you could sprinkle it in here and there.

Vulnerability is crucial when dating. I think that it's definitely a dance in terms of like when you start to be vulnerable. I would say like dates one to three, you like do like a tiny dive into vulnerability. And then after the third date is when you get a But you could sprinkle it in here and there.

For example, I think that it's really great to talk about your past relationships on the first few dates. Not extensively, but more so just like how come your last relationship ended? What did you take away from it? What's your blind spot when it comes to dating that you're trying to be better at in relationships? I think that just that curiosity is crucial and that curiosity...

For example, I think that it's really great to talk about your past relationships on the first few dates. Not extensively, but more so just like how come your last relationship ended? What did you take away from it? What's your blind spot when it comes to dating that you're trying to be better at in relationships? I think that just that curiosity is crucial and that curiosity...

For example, I think that it's really great to talk about your past relationships on the first few dates. Not extensively, but more so just like how come your last relationship ended? What did you take away from it? What's your blind spot when it comes to dating that you're trying to be better at in relationships? I think that just that curiosity is crucial and that curiosity...

creates vulnerability um so that kind of vulnerability is good i think if you have like a family trauma i which we all do i would probably save that for like date four or or after um but again like going back to the sprinkling like if you're in therapy and you think that that's a big part of your life and has shaped you then talk about that in dates one two three i think that that's

creates vulnerability um so that kind of vulnerability is good i think if you have like a family trauma i which we all do i would probably save that for like date four or or after um but again like going back to the sprinkling like if you're in therapy and you think that that's a big part of your life and has shaped you then talk about that in dates one two three i think that that's

creates vulnerability um so that kind of vulnerability is good i think if you have like a family trauma i which we all do i would probably save that for like date four or or after um but again like going back to the sprinkling like if you're in therapy and you think that that's a big part of your life and has shaped you then talk about that in dates one two three i think that that's

Like that shows like the power in vulnerability if you're able to, you know, talk about that stuff in a positive way. But just don't bring the energy down with your vulnerability, if that makes sense.

Like that shows like the power in vulnerability if you're able to, you know, talk about that stuff in a positive way. But just don't bring the energy down with your vulnerability, if that makes sense.

Like that shows like the power in vulnerability if you're able to, you know, talk about that stuff in a positive way. But just don't bring the energy down with your vulnerability, if that makes sense.

I think that everybody, when they're dating, is looking for somebody to bring lightness and good energy into their lives and levity. And when we kind of dump our shit onto the date, it's...

I think that everybody, when they're dating, is looking for somebody to bring lightness and good energy into their lives and levity. And when we kind of dump our shit onto the date, it's...

I think that everybody, when they're dating, is looking for somebody to bring lightness and good energy into their lives and levity. And when we kind of dump our shit onto the date, it's...

can be indicative of like how that relationship is going to go like oh this person's going to be complaining or this person's going to bring me down and so it's not like don't be yourself if you have that part of you that's that's okay but it's more like lead with your good foot foot or the best foot forward and so like for example with the therapy um

can be indicative of like how that relationship is going to go like oh this person's going to be complaining or this person's going to bring me down and so it's not like don't be yourself if you have that part of you that's that's okay but it's more like lead with your good foot foot or the best foot forward and so like for example with the therapy um

can be indicative of like how that relationship is going to go like oh this person's going to be complaining or this person's going to bring me down and so it's not like don't be yourself if you have that part of you that's that's okay but it's more like lead with your good foot foot or the best foot forward and so like for example with the therapy um