Lindsey Metselaar
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90 appearances
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1 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Nov 2024
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Yes. Okay. Number one is follow the rules. Meaning, um, we met at Acme has a set of rules for men to follow and for women to follow, um, without getting too into them. I would say just like pay for the date. If you asked her on the date, you know, um, be a gentleman, open doors, uh, Don't ask to go up or invite her over after the first date. You know, all of those kinds of things.
Follow those rules. Get her flowers. And I would say number two, always have the next date set up. Women hate when we're in this sort of limbo where we're like, when are we going to see them again? And are we just going to be pen pals now? Or are they going to ask me out on that other next date, right? Even if they're not free for a week, I still want to have that next date planned.
Number three is initiate all of the things. all of the things and don't be afraid to initiate the, I love you, initiate the let's move in together and initiate the, will you be my wife? If that comes up, you know, initiate all the things. Don't make her feel like she has to corner you to have these conversations. Um, and number four, which I didn't know we were going to have a number four.
Give me a second. Um, number four, I would say, um, Don't be afraid to be persistent, which we talked about a little bit. But don't be afraid to be persistent because we're all going to get rejected in life and It's like if you don't ask, you won't get. And so you never know what's going on in a person's life. Be persistent if you really, really, especially for men.
I feel like men just are luckier in this instance where like they can get away with it. So get away with it. Be persistent. And until you're creeping in on stalker territory, just be persistent. Right.
And I have to tell you for the persistent guy, when you stop being persistent, she'll miss that. Yeah, she will. I know she will because my friend missed it. And now they're married with two kids.
Totally. Be persistent and self-aware.
Thank you. So we do these live, um, events, some of which are mixers in New York city where, you know, men and women living in New York could meet, Which are really fun. And we do these live shows as well. We have one in LA, SF and Austin. So if you're in any of those places and all of that can be found on our website, we met at Acme.com.
I honestly dare someone to try it. I would just love to hear how that goes.
Would love to and would love that. Thank you so much.
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