Lindsey Metselaar

Yeah. I think I will say that it's harder, especially if it's a woman who follows women-adapted dating rules because we don't necessarily put all of our cards on the table right away. Okay. But if a woman answers your text in like a timely manner, if she's continuing to get excited when you suggest going out on dates and –

she kisses you and, you know, smiles and laughs at your jokes and likes to banter with you and enjoys like talking every day. And you have like kind of these inside jokes, like those are all signs that a woman is interested in you. I think that with women, we are more clear when we're not interested than men.

she kisses you and, you know, smiles and laughs at your jokes and likes to banter with you and enjoys like talking every day. And you have like kind of these inside jokes, like those are all signs that a woman is interested in you. I think that with women, we are more clear when we're not interested than men.

she kisses you and, you know, smiles and laughs at your jokes and likes to banter with you and enjoys like talking every day. And you have like kind of these inside jokes, like those are all signs that a woman is interested in you. I think that with women, we are more clear when we're not interested than men.

Um, we will usually send like an, what I call like an anti ghost text, which is like, you know, it's been great getting to know you. I didn't feel a connection, blah, blah, blah. Um, I feel, and I could be wrong, but most of the women that I know aren't big on like the leading guys on for no reason type of thing. Um,

Um, we will usually send like an, what I call like an anti ghost text, which is like, you know, it's been great getting to know you. I didn't feel a connection, blah, blah, blah. Um, I feel, and I could be wrong, but most of the women that I know aren't big on like the leading guys on for no reason type of thing. Um,

Um, we will usually send like an, what I call like an anti ghost text, which is like, you know, it's been great getting to know you. I didn't feel a connection, blah, blah, blah. Um, I feel, and I could be wrong, but most of the women that I know aren't big on like the leading guys on for no reason type of thing. Um,

And we're human, just like we would feel bad if we were taken on multiple nice dinner dates and still weren't interested. We'd probably cut it off after a while. So I think that if a woman's interested, she's continuing to go out with you. There's kissing, maybe a little bit more as we get to know each other, texting.

And we're human, just like we would feel bad if we were taken on multiple nice dinner dates and still weren't interested. We'd probably cut it off after a while. So I think that if a woman's interested, she's continuing to go out with you. There's kissing, maybe a little bit more as we get to know each other, texting.

And we're human, just like we would feel bad if we were taken on multiple nice dinner dates and still weren't interested. We'd probably cut it off after a while. So I think that if a woman's interested, she's continuing to go out with you. There's kissing, maybe a little bit more as we get to know each other, texting.

And if a woman's not interested in you, then she's not responding to your messages. She's, you know, continuing to reschedule, prioritize other things. But what can be complicated from a man's perspective is like, if you are the kind of guy who's not planning these dates ahead, who's sending that like last minute text that's like, oh, like, are you free now?

And if a woman's not interested in you, then she's not responding to your messages. She's, you know, continuing to reschedule, prioritize other things. But what can be complicated from a man's perspective is like, if you are the kind of guy who's not planning these dates ahead, who's sending that like last minute text that's like, oh, like, are you free now?

And if a woman's not interested in you, then she's not responding to your messages. She's, you know, continuing to reschedule, prioritize other things. But what can be complicated from a man's perspective is like, if you are the kind of guy who's not planning these dates ahead, who's sending that like last minute text that's like, oh, like, are you free now?

And then you're like, but she's not going out with me. Then that's on you. Then she would be interested in you if you like got your shit together.

And then you're like, but she's not going out with me. Then that's on you. Then she would be interested in you if you like got your shit together.

And then you're like, but she's not going out with me. Then that's on you. Then she would be interested in you if you like got your shit together.

Totally. And I love that you did that and that you stayed with it. And I think that's the one double standard that – that's one of the double standards that men can get away with is that persistency. And like if I were coaching women, I would be like, you know, if he's interested, he's going to want to go out with you. But for women, I think –

Totally. And I love that you did that and that you stayed with it. And I think that's the one double standard that – that's one of the double standards that men can get away with is that persistency. And like if I were coaching women, I would be like, you know, if he's interested, he's going to want to go out with you. But for women, I think –

Totally. And I love that you did that and that you stayed with it. And I think that's the one double standard that – that's one of the double standards that men can get away with is that persistency. And like if I were coaching women, I would be like, you know, if he's interested, he's going to want to go out with you. But for women, I think –

A lot of the time we hear these stories of like, oh, I wasn't like, oh, I was like, you know, still had feelings for my ex or I was dealing with this. But like he kept texting me and like showing that he was interested in me and then like it aligned and worked out. You don't often hear that the other way around.