Lindsey Metselaar

A guy came up to me who I later ended up dating and he said, your legs are so hairy. That's definitely an insult.

A guy came up to me who I later ended up dating and he said, your legs are so hairy. That's definitely an insult.

A guy came up to me who I later ended up dating and he said, your legs are so hairy. That's definitely an insult.

And by the way, he had no idea if they were or not. He was just saying that. And my legs were hairy. I don't really shave my legs, but I'm not like a hairy person. They just like it's like peach fuzz. But I was like, what? Like, how do you know? You know, and but normally does not work.

And by the way, he had no idea if they were or not. He was just saying that. And my legs were hairy. I don't really shave my legs, but I'm not like a hairy person. They just like it's like peach fuzz. But I was like, what? Like, how do you know? You know, and but normally does not work.

And by the way, he had no idea if they were or not. He was just saying that. And my legs were hairy. I don't really shave my legs, but I'm not like a hairy person. They just like it's like peach fuzz. But I was like, what? Like, how do you know? You know, and but normally does not work.

Totally. Way more.

Totally. Way more.

Totally. Way more.

So what that means is that if, and this is more like towards women dating men, it's like if you're, but still for men too, if you're confused about how they feel about you, like they're hot and cold, or you're still trying to figure out, screenshot the conversation, send it to friends, do you think they like me? you know, like waiting on their every last word to try to figure out.

So what that means is that if, and this is more like towards women dating men, it's like if you're, but still for men too, if you're confused about how they feel about you, like they're hot and cold, or you're still trying to figure out, screenshot the conversation, send it to friends, do you think they like me? you know, like waiting on their every last word to try to figure out.

So what that means is that if, and this is more like towards women dating men, it's like if you're, but still for men too, if you're confused about how they feel about you, like they're hot and cold, or you're still trying to figure out, screenshot the conversation, send it to friends, do you think they like me? you know, like waiting on their every last word to try to figure out.

It's like that meme with like the math problem on the board like, do they like me? They don't because you wouldn't be confused if somebody did like you, if somebody showed up consistently, made plans with you, messaged you, you know, every day when you're dating and whatnot. That's what that really means. And that like would have saved me so much time when dating in my 20s if I knew that.

It's like that meme with like the math problem on the board like, do they like me? They don't because you wouldn't be confused if somebody did like you, if somebody showed up consistently, made plans with you, messaged you, you know, every day when you're dating and whatnot. That's what that really means. And that like would have saved me so much time when dating in my 20s if I knew that.

It's like that meme with like the math problem on the board like, do they like me? They don't because you wouldn't be confused if somebody did like you, if somebody showed up consistently, made plans with you, messaged you, you know, every day when you're dating and whatnot. That's what that really means. And that like would have saved me so much time when dating in my 20s if I knew that.

Right. Like if you're asking a friend, if you're like, Oh, maybe he, you know, maybe he turned his phone off for the weekend. No.

Right. Like if you're asking a friend, if you're like, Oh, maybe he, you know, maybe he turned his phone off for the weekend. No.

Right. Like if you're asking a friend, if you're like, Oh, maybe he, you know, maybe he turned his phone off for the weekend. No.

Yeah. I think I will say that it's harder, especially if it's a woman who follows women-adapted dating rules because we don't necessarily put all of our cards on the table right away. Okay. But if a woman answers your text in like a timely manner, if she's continuing to get excited when you suggest going out on dates and –

Yeah. I think I will say that it's harder, especially if it's a woman who follows women-adapted dating rules because we don't necessarily put all of our cards on the table right away. Okay. But if a woman answers your text in like a timely manner, if she's continuing to get excited when you suggest going out on dates and –