Lindsey Metselaar
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90 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard Nov 2024
Lindsey Metselaar’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Like if you have to call them out for something or if you want to have like a, will you be my girlfriend conversation or I like you type of thing, like do it in person, always in person.
Yeah, love it.
They want to talk about who you are and who you were and who you plan to be in the future. Ooh. And they don't want to talk about why your ex is a bitch and how much money your car costs.
And like drugs that you do.
I've heard that story like happen to someone else. Maybe it's the same guy.
Yeah, I think it's like the modern answer to like the where do you see yourself in five years? Like you should have a grip on that and be able to share that comfortably. Like what your plans are in the next five years without somebody straight up asking what is your plan in the next five years?
So attractive. Yeah.
Yeah, I don't know, I hate being a lawyer.
women want something funny women always want to laugh so leading with something that's going to make her laugh is so crucial and women don't want the hey beautiful hey sexy like it's just it's too it sounds like sleazy even if that's not your intention you know
Even just a simple, like, how does it feel to be the most beautiful person here? Like, that's funnier than, hey, beautiful.
Or like, I feel bad for all these other girls because you're here, you know? Yeah. Like, what should we do about it?
That's amazing.
That's really funny.
Always. Lean into the silly.
Women want to see like one tiny tidbit of vulnerability. If that's like I'm in therapy or like kind of making something about your life into a funny prompt and women don't want to see gym selfies selfies in general yeah
and like pictures of you holding up fish what is it about that men just think that like if they show a picture of them having caught a fish then they're like i'm a man so you can trust that i'm a man now because i can catch a fish and now you can swipe right
Exactly. And by the way, going back to what women do want to see, again, always humor. Always humor. If I'm cracking up from your dating app profile, I'm saying yes, no matter what you look like.
There was a line once recently. It was very simple. I saw on a guy's dating profile that I was helping a girl with. And it said, believe it or not, I, which is like a hinge prompt, said, believe it or not, I took an Uber recently that was less than $50. Okay. And I just, it was just like a funny little, and then there was another guy who recently had something.
He said, all I ask is that you was the prompt. And he said, support Ben and Jen, like Ben Affleck and Jennifer Lopez. And I just thought it was silly. Like I like when guys aren't afraid to lean into like a pop culture reference.
I love that. I love that personalization.
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