Lisa Bilyeu
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1,143 appearances
6 recordings
5 series
first heard Nov 2024
last heard 20 Dec
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Which is so exciting. Tell me about on tour. Where can people also buy tickets?
You have inspired me, dude. You've inspired me.
It's so inspiring. And I love that you're trying new things. I love that people get to see you in person. And because you're in different cities as well, it allows other people that if they're in that city, they can go and watch you. That's so amazing.
Oh, my God. And if anyone wants to just follow you in general.
There's only one Jay Shetty.
People should be compassionate to themselves, but extend that compassion to your future self because truly extending your compassion to your future self is doing something that gives him or her a shot at a happy and a peaceful life.
This is an iHeart Podcast.
Yeah, I think most people actually have the misinterpretation of what confidence actually is. Because they usually, and I was culprit of this when I was a stay-at-home wife for eight years, I thought I needed it to get started. And I thought I needed the confidence to live out my dreams, to actually go towards my goals, and I was waiting to have the confidence.
And that I think is a complete misconception is what actually is holding so many of us back from trying anything. And what I realized was in my own journey, I actually just need to take action. I needed to go into something very insecure, not knowing what I was doing, practicing, practicing, practicing, you know, wax on wax off my favorite movie, Karate Kid.
and get so damn good that I build the competence to then lead to confidence. So the truth is the confidence is the byproduct of taking action. And a lot of us don't think of it like that. We think it's going to be the magic bullet that's going to get us to actually take that action at the beginning. And so that's where I actually reshaped and how I rethought of the word confidence.
And then also for me, confidence is like a muscle. Thank you. Thank you.
Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
Yeah, it's so true. I go to like, is it still moving me towards your goal? Yes or no. So actually there's two parts. Is it still moving you towards your goal? And is this still fulfilling? Because those things sometimes, right? It's like, well, no, we get a, you know, especially in entrepreneurial world these days, it's like, you know, be on your grind, hustle, hustle, work hard, move forward.
And so the question is, yes, work hard, but are you working smart? And are you working in the right direction? It's like, think of, you know, I love analogies. So just thinking about going in the car and it's like, you want to drive to New York, right? But you actually take the wrong freeway and you keep going and you're just like, But I'm on this freeway now.
It will eventually get me to New York. But do you want it to take 10 times longer? What if you now realize, actually, I don't want to go to New York anyway? We're like having these assessments of, am I still on the right path? Do I still want to go to New York? All these assessments, just because you're one year in, doesn't mean that you shouldn't. In fact, that's when you should.
I wish I did that. In eight years, I didn't do that even once. Me and my husband, we play this game called no bullshit. What would it take? And so the no bullshit, what would it take to X, Y, and Z? So let's say your goal is to build a company and you're like, okay, no bullshit. What would it take? It would take me. seven years to make a hundred thousand dollars.
And in that path, I will have to give up on spending Saturdays with my partner and I can no longer get my hair done. Like that's what no bullshit. What would it take me to get to your goal? Actually refine, where are you going? No bullshit. What is it going to take to get you there? And then are you willing to do it? Because that's the thing, right?
Like for you with your C-suite, if you're just like, I want to run this company, Great. Now you've got the goal. You know what you want to do. How do you get that? Okay. Well, I need to fill this position. I need to work my way up the ladder. Okay, great. What skill sets are you going to build to work your way up the ladder?
Now, when you're in the process each year, you need to assess, are you having fun? Is it a life you still want? You have to replay the no bullshit. What would it take? Because now your goal still may be, I want to be to the top, but you know what? I actually really want to have a partner. And I've given up dating for four years. And the truth is, this may not be the life I want anymore.
I want to date. I want to go out there. Okay, so now maybe you've assessed your goal of running the company may not align with your day-to-day. And now you better reassess, does your goal still match the life you want? And I think that to your point of how do you make sure you're not wasting your years is the reassessment of is your goal still your goal?
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