Lisa Fong

But I just wanted to kind of, like, show that I understood.

No, but you want to change.

Well, you want to relate and you want to make that person feel understood to the detriment of others.

And it's not right.

Like I remember I walked away like, I didn't really agree with that.

Why did I let that person say that and not, yeah.

I do that.

Because you don't want to rock the boat.

We're talking about bitchy in netball and we're totally being silly.

I think so.

absolutely I do think though like there's that whole um generalization that girls are bitchier than boys like in the playground but I actually don't agree with that because my kids have had issues with friends and they're boys so I'm like I don't think I do remember being a teacher and um

you know, the girls would sort of be a bit like, no, don't come and sit by me.

No, she can't sit by me.

And, but I mean, I see that happen in boys' situations too.

I think that's a, I mean, obviously we're generalizing here, but I do agree with that.

But I mean, we, because we have so many more emotions to deal with.

yeah maybe like like well we we so there might be an issue but we escalate it in different emotions whereas boys probably just there's just not much going on there most generalizing that they just get over things quite quickly like

yeah they don't my boys generally don't really hold a grudge they can move on quite quickly whereas I'm really waiting for repair and Dan's like you're not going to get that like they've moved on from it but I and I hold it I get hurt and I'm like I want you to repair this with me

Whereas, you know.

Oh, God.