Lisa Fong

Obviously it would be easier to wrangle with two, but still there's still, we had so much hard on that because it depends on how you can communicate together.

And if you don't communicate the same, which Dan and I don't, he's an avoidant, I'm an anxious attachment.

So I'm waiting for him to come and give me a cuddle and he's not.

and that's like i we haven't cuddled or touched it you know do you know like what attachment are you do you know what you are i don't know what types there are yeah out of what what are the options are you googling yeah i am secure yeah see i'm i'm i feel like i'm more of an anxious but my backup is secure

Whereas Dan would be avoidant secure possibly.

But like what that means is that I'm wanting him to come to me and go, everything's going to be okay.

Come here, babe.

But he's avoidant.

So he's, when I'm needing that, he goes the other way and just waits for me to say, can you come here and give me a cuddle?

And then he will, but he avoids it.

KDA.

Secure.

He's probably avoidant, dismissive.

Sometimes I make, like last night with Rico in this situation, sometimes I like am talking to Dan about stuff and I know in my head that I'm just, shut up.

You're just, you're actually really annoying, Lisa.

And then, you know, he's sort of, he actually came to me this morning and said, I don't think we're going to, I don't feel comfortable supplying Rico with alcohol anymore.

if he's going down to a party, like if he can have some drinks at home, like some beers, like a couple, or if he goes to a party at a house where the parents are there and that kind of situation, but like, he can't take a couple of beers in his bag down at the beach.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.