Lisa Fong

because I didn't choose that life, but you can't like, you know, you could say, Oh, single moms have to deal with it.

And that's fine.

Like I get that.

And that's, that's hard, really hard.

And often you might feel like I feel it's all valid, but I, I, um, Dan is there and he's, but he's not really there like at night.

Like, and then I'm like, I want him to deal with

from when rika was going out last night i wanted dan to give him a chat but dan was too tired to even talk and i'm like great okay good night that pissed me off pisses me off all the time and then i think what a bitch so cultivated in a healthy marriage podcast great in reality very difficult but um that's what i i mean wasn't that my point the other day about podcasts like you know listen to all of them in the world and get really good like ideas and stuff but like in reality

you know I just think it is all so hard eh and it's so annoying that like we're at this age where we've you realize how hard it is and there's nothing you can do about it like yeah I mean that's where yeah like life can be very hard and then you've had to deal with and are still dealing with you know the peak of it

Now, yeah, it's so weird, eh?

Because it's not like we're in the hospital every day.

But I think my life is forever changed and it's forever going to be a bit fucked up.

And navigating how to manage kids' sport between each other.

Because Dan does a lot of like enrolling them into their teams or registering them.

He's sort of taken that role.

But, you know, we have to communicate all the time about who's taking what.

And so if you weren't together, you'd have to still have that communication and like it would be so much harder.

So I can see why people just stay together.

Yeah.

Especially with lots of children, I think, but do you think it would be harder?

I mean, is it easier?