Logan Urie

So the first one is the romanticizer. And you'll probably think of different people in your life that are each of these. So the romanticizer is that person who is looking for the soulmate, one person for life. I want the romantic rom-com, we met story. We both reach for the tomato at the same time. And they feel like if I find my soulmate, everything about the relationship will be easy.

So the first one is the romanticizer. And you'll probably think of different people in your life that are each of these. So the romanticizer is that person who is looking for the soulmate, one person for life. I want the romantic rom-com, we met story. We both reach for the tomato at the same time. And they feel like if I find my soulmate, everything about the relationship will be easy.

The second type is, oh, so the first type has unrealistic expectations of relationships. The second type is the maximizer and they have unrealistic expectations of their partner. This is the person who's always looking for something better. I want her looks, her ambition, her family background, and I just need to find this Frankenstein version that has all that and then I'll be ready.

The second type is, oh, so the first type has unrealistic expectations of relationships. The second type is the maximizer and they have unrealistic expectations of their partner. This is the person who's always looking for something better. I want her looks, her ambition, her family background, and I just need to find this Frankenstein version that has all that and then I'll be ready.

The second type is, oh, so the first type has unrealistic expectations of relationships. The second type is the maximizer and they have unrealistic expectations of their partner. This is the person who's always looking for something better. I want her looks, her ambition, her family background, and I just need to find this Frankenstein version that has all that and then I'll be ready.

And they always wonder, is there somebody better out there? And it's hard for them to ever choose because they feel like I should just keep looking. Yeah. And then the third type is the hesitator, and they have unrealistic expectations of themselves. And they're the person who says, I'm not lovable right now. Why would anyone date me right now?

And they always wonder, is there somebody better out there? And it's hard for them to ever choose because they feel like I should just keep looking. Yeah. And then the third type is the hesitator, and they have unrealistic expectations of themselves. And they're the person who says, I'm not lovable right now. Why would anyone date me right now?

And they always wonder, is there somebody better out there? And it's hard for them to ever choose because they feel like I should just keep looking. Yeah. And then the third type is the hesitator, and they have unrealistic expectations of themselves. And they're the person who says, I'm not lovable right now. Why would anyone date me right now?

I'm going to wait until I lose 10 pounds, until I have a more impressive job, then I'll start dating. And so they're not putting themselves out there at all.

I'm going to wait until I lose 10 pounds, until I have a more impressive job, then I'll start dating. And so they're not putting themselves out there at all.

I'm going to wait until I lose 10 pounds, until I have a more impressive job, then I'll start dating. And so they're not putting themselves out there at all.

So romanticizers are hard for me because they feel like I'm popping their bubble, that I'm bursting their bubble. But what I like to tell them is what's romantic is finding somebody and building a relationship. Who cares how you met? If you're in a 50-year marriage, the day you met is 0.0055% of your total relationship. So really get out of the obsession with, I want to meet the romantic way.

So romanticizers are hard for me because they feel like I'm popping their bubble, that I'm bursting their bubble. But what I like to tell them is what's romantic is finding somebody and building a relationship. Who cares how you met? If you're in a 50-year marriage, the day you met is 0.0055% of your total relationship. So really get out of the obsession with, I want to meet the romantic way.

So romanticizers are hard for me because they feel like I'm popping their bubble, that I'm bursting their bubble. But what I like to tell them is what's romantic is finding somebody and building a relationship. Who cares how you met? If you're in a 50-year marriage, the day you met is 0.0055% of your total relationship. So really get out of the obsession with, I want to meet the romantic way.

No, what's romantic is that you met. And there's this framework called the soulmate mindset versus the work it out mindset. It's from psychologist Renee Franny-Young. And what she says is that soulmate mindset people, what they think is if you find the perfect person, everything else is easy. And so when they encounter problems in their relationships, they give up.

No, what's romantic is that you met. And there's this framework called the soulmate mindset versus the work it out mindset. It's from psychologist Renee Franny-Young. And what she says is that soulmate mindset people, what they think is if you find the perfect person, everything else is easy. And so when they encounter problems in their relationships, they give up.

No, what's romantic is that you met. And there's this framework called the soulmate mindset versus the work it out mindset. It's from psychologist Renee Franny-Young. And what she says is that soulmate mindset people, what they think is if you find the perfect person, everything else is easy. And so when they encounter problems in their relationships, they give up.

The work it out mindset is a great relationship is one where you both work to make it great and you can tackle any problem that comes your way. So the advice for them is to shift from the soulmate mindset to the work it out mindset.

The work it out mindset is a great relationship is one where you both work to make it great and you can tackle any problem that comes your way. So the advice for them is to shift from the soulmate mindset to the work it out mindset.

The work it out mindset is a great relationship is one where you both work to make it great and you can tackle any problem that comes your way. So the advice for them is to shift from the soulmate mindset to the work it out mindset.