Logan Urie

We should discuss this in person.

And that was such a powerful moment because he took a pattern that I had and he really stopped it in its tracks.

And it made me understand that there was a different way to be in relationships.

So for me, 10 years ago, meeting my now husband, I realized I didn't have to be in an anxious avoidant loop.

And that really was such a pivotal change in my life.

And so for you, Sophia, I feel like understanding your attachment style, understanding how the chase feels really exciting because you're confusing...

anxiety for chemistry.

You're addicted to the drama.

Instead, I want you to become more secure yourself and also to go for a secure partner.

They may seem initially boring because you're so addicted to the chase and the fact that you don't know what will happen, but these are the people who make great long-term partners.

That's interesting.

I don't think about it from a gendered perspective.

I do feel like people are not in the habit of talking to anyone in person because they feel like that happens online.

So we can see this in so many different places, right?

You don't want to call a restaurant.

You just want to do it on your phone.

You are constantly engaging with things through technology.

And so I think right now people want to go unhinged.

See who's available.

See who's single.