Logan Urie

He would practice telling the stories, see what parts people found interesting, see what they found boring.

And then on dates, he would be able to be more compelling and tell stories.

better stories.

And so I think we so often look out and say, who's out there for me?

Nobody's good enough.

I live in the worst city for dating.

Well, what are you doing to make yourself a more attractive partner?

What are you doing to show that you have a growth mindset?

What places are you putting yourself in that would help you meet more people?

And so, of course, it's a two-sided equation where both people have to show up, but what are the things within your control that can make you more attractive as a partner?

I think about this a lot, how we constantly are reinventing terms for the same thing.

Can we talk about this for a minute?

A situationship is an undefined romantic relationship.

So we're spending time together, we're hooking up, but we don't have labels.

I think this is part of a larger conversation about how when you apply language to something, it sort of solidifies and becomes more concrete.

But people have been doing situationships for a very long time.

I feel like I had plenty of situationships in college, but we didn't call it that.

Now it has a term and then now it's more stigmatized.

But I think that if two people both agree that we are not exclusive or we do not have a future together, but we're having fun together, I don't think a situationship is necessarily bad.

When it becomes harmful is when one person isn't expressing their needs or desires.