Logan Urie

But once I find something that satisfies those expectations, I'm going to go with it and not overthink it. So during the pandemic, I needed to buy my first car. And my husband and I said, okay, we want something used, something that's a hybrid. And we want to spend under this amount. We went to two places. There was one red used Toyota Camry hybrid and we bought it. And I love our car.

And it didn't spend months looking for the perfect car. I said, this meets our expectations. Let's do it. And so satisficing, we know from the research that they're happier because they don't spend their whole lives saying, what about this? What about that? They say, I wanted to find someone who I was attracted to, who was funny and who was smart. I found her. I'm going to invest in her.

And it didn't spend months looking for the perfect car. I said, this meets our expectations. Let's do it. And so satisficing, we know from the research that they're happier because they don't spend their whole lives saying, what about this? What about that? They say, I wanted to find someone who I was attracted to, who was funny and who was smart. I found her. I'm going to invest in her.

And it didn't spend months looking for the perfect car. I said, this meets our expectations. Let's do it. And so satisficing, we know from the research that they're happier because they don't spend their whole lives saying, what about this? What about that? They say, I wanted to find someone who I was attracted to, who was funny and who was smart. I found her. I'm going to invest in her.

That person's so much happier than the guy who spends another decade looking for this perfect person.

That person's so much happier than the guy who spends another decade looking for this perfect person.

That person's so much happier than the guy who spends another decade looking for this perfect person.

I love that. There's this quote that I love from Charles Darwin, which is, it's not the strongest species that survives nor the most intelligent. It's the one that's most responsive to change. And that's great advice for relationships because it's not the couple that was the most in love when they met or had the most in common.

I love that. There's this quote that I love from Charles Darwin, which is, it's not the strongest species that survives nor the most intelligent. It's the one that's most responsive to change. And that's great advice for relationships because it's not the couple that was the most in love when they met or had the most in common.

I love that. There's this quote that I love from Charles Darwin, which is, it's not the strongest species that survives nor the most intelligent. It's the one that's most responsive to change. And that's great advice for relationships because it's not the couple that was the most in love when they met or had the most in common.

It's the couple that acknowledges we're going to have a long relationship together and I'm going to change and you're going to change and we need to adapt to that. What about the hesitator? The hesitator who I do have a soft spot for, it's really about getting out there. And it reminds me of your quote, start before you're ready. Yeah. Because nobody's ever 100% ready.

It's the couple that acknowledges we're going to have a long relationship together and I'm going to change and you're going to change and we need to adapt to that. What about the hesitator? The hesitator who I do have a soft spot for, it's really about getting out there. And it reminds me of your quote, start before you're ready. Yeah. Because nobody's ever 100% ready.

It's the couple that acknowledges we're going to have a long relationship together and I'm going to change and you're going to change and we need to adapt to that. What about the hesitator? The hesitator who I do have a soft spot for, it's really about getting out there. And it reminds me of your quote, start before you're ready. Yeah. Because nobody's ever 100% ready.

And so I have clients who read tons of books about dating. They're excited to talk to me, but they're not going on any dates. And I'll say to them, we can't have another appointment until you have gone on at least three dates because they're not putting themselves out there. And then they say, but I'm so bad at it. I'm like, nobody...

And so I have clients who read tons of books about dating. They're excited to talk to me, but they're not going on any dates. And I'll say to them, we can't have another appointment until you have gone on at least three dates because they're not putting themselves out there. And then they say, but I'm so bad at it. I'm like, nobody...

And so I have clients who read tons of books about dating. They're excited to talk to me, but they're not going on any dates. And I'll say to them, we can't have another appointment until you have gone on at least three dates because they're not putting themselves out there. And then they say, but I'm so bad at it. I'm like, nobody...

wakes up one day and knows how to play the guitar, you practice and you get better at it. So the only way to get better at dating is by dating. And so start before you're ready, set a deadline for yourself, get some cute outfits, pick some fun first date ideas, have a friend hold you accountable and just start dating.

wakes up one day and knows how to play the guitar, you practice and you get better at it. So the only way to get better at dating is by dating. And so start before you're ready, set a deadline for yourself, get some cute outfits, pick some fun first date ideas, have a friend hold you accountable and just start dating.

wakes up one day and knows how to play the guitar, you practice and you get better at it. So the only way to get better at dating is by dating. And so start before you're ready, set a deadline for yourself, get some cute outfits, pick some fun first date ideas, have a friend hold you accountable and just start dating.

The number one thing is having a great profile. So I can tell you some good profile tips. Let's hear the profile tips. So in our research at Hinge, we found that your first photo should be a clear headshot. No filters, no sunglasses. Just what do you look like?