Logan Urie

I really do want something exclusive.

It hurts me that you're going on dates with other people.

I want to find a long-term partner.

If that is the case for you, then have a conversation with the person and say, what are we?

I'd be interested in deleting Hinge, would you?

Then you have the data you need.

If they're on the same page, congratulations.

You delete your apps, you move forward.

If they're not, at least you know.

And I'm really all about know the data that empowers you so that you can make the right decision for yourself, as opposed to what so many people do, which is I'm afraid of the answer, so I don't ask the question.

I completely agree with everything you said.

And I feel like a lot of people do need to embrace this because so many people date someone for their potential or they feel like I can coach them to the better job.

I can help them overcome their social anxiety.

I think if you would not...

want to be with someone for how they are now, then don't be with them because you cannot bet on their potential.

And if you do, you might be disappointed or frustrated if it doesn't work out.

And so people will show you who they are if you...

Let them.

But too often, we want to control everything.

We want to play the mentor-mentee relationship.