Logan Urie

And so people have this list of pet peeves that are small things that annoy them more than maybe they annoy someone else, but they confuse them for deal breakers, real fundamental incompatibilities that mean that you shouldn't be in a relationship with someone.

And so people have this list of pet peeves that are small things that annoy them more than maybe they annoy someone else, but they confuse them for deal breakers, real fundamental incompatibilities that mean that you shouldn't be in a relationship with someone.

And so people have this list of pet peeves that are small things that annoy them more than maybe they annoy someone else, but they confuse them for deal breakers, real fundamental incompatibilities that mean that you shouldn't be in a relationship with someone.

So a deal breaker would be something like, I smoke and you have asthma, or I celebrate this religion, you practice this other religion, and we both want to raise our kids in our own religion. Yes, we're probably not going to work out as a couple, but people should really sit down, make a list of their deal breakers, And then ask themselves, is this a real incompatibility?

So a deal breaker would be something like, I smoke and you have asthma, or I celebrate this religion, you practice this other religion, and we both want to raise our kids in our own religion. Yes, we're probably not going to work out as a couple, but people should really sit down, make a list of their deal breakers, And then ask themselves, is this a real incompatibility?

So a deal breaker would be something like, I smoke and you have asthma, or I celebrate this religion, you practice this other religion, and we both want to raise our kids in our own religion. Yes, we're probably not going to work out as a couple, but people should really sit down, make a list of their deal breakers, And then ask themselves, is this a real incompatibility?

And if not, just move it to the pet peeves list and don't focus on it. And so I never tell people to settle. That's kind of like the big S word in my work. But I do say double down on the things that matter and be willing to compromise on the things that don't.

And if not, just move it to the pet peeves list and don't focus on it. And so I never tell people to settle. That's kind of like the big S word in my work. But I do say double down on the things that matter and be willing to compromise on the things that don't.

And if not, just move it to the pet peeves list and don't focus on it. And so I never tell people to settle. That's kind of like the big S word in my work. But I do say double down on the things that matter and be willing to compromise on the things that don't.

Great. So we've been talking a lot about online dating. So I'll actually shift to talk about how to meet more people in real life. So my favorite concept for this is a framework I have called the events decision matrix. We might want to actually draw it out because it's very visual. Okay. But you basically draw a two by two.

Great. So we've been talking a lot about online dating. So I'll actually shift to talk about how to meet more people in real life. So my favorite concept for this is a framework I have called the events decision matrix. We might want to actually draw it out because it's very visual. Okay. But you basically draw a two by two.

Great. So we've been talking a lot about online dating. So I'll actually shift to talk about how to meet more people in real life. So my favorite concept for this is a framework I have called the events decision matrix. We might want to actually draw it out because it's very visual. Okay. But you basically draw a two by two.

So at the top of the line, the vertical line, you say likelihood that I'll meet someone at this event. Okay, so right or left? Like on the top. Oh, so on the top.

So at the top of the line, the vertical line, you say likelihood that I'll meet someone at this event. Okay, so right or left? Like on the top. Oh, so on the top.

So at the top of the line, the vertical line, you say likelihood that I'll meet someone at this event. Okay, so right or left? Like on the top. Oh, so on the top.

Yeah. And then on the right-hand side, you'll say likelihood you'll enjoy it. Like enjoy this event. Enjoy this event. Yep. So I created this because I felt like I was working with a lot of busy people who were like, I really want to meet someone in real life, but I'm busy and what event should I prioritize? Okay.

Yeah. And then on the right-hand side, you'll say likelihood you'll enjoy it. Like enjoy this event. Enjoy this event. Yep. So I created this because I felt like I was working with a lot of busy people who were like, I really want to meet someone in real life, but I'm busy and what event should I prioritize? Okay.

Yeah. And then on the right-hand side, you'll say likelihood you'll enjoy it. Like enjoy this event. Enjoy this event. Yep. So I created this because I felt like I was working with a lot of busy people who were like, I really want to meet someone in real life, but I'm busy and what event should I prioritize? Okay.

So my recommendation for Molly and for anyone else is that look at a bunch of events. Look on Facebook, look on Meetup, follow different museums, whatever you're into. Look and then every time there's an event, you plot it on here. And the things that you think about are what's the likelihood that people interact at this event?

So my recommendation for Molly and for anyone else is that look at a bunch of events. Look on Facebook, look on Meetup, follow different museums, whatever you're into. Look and then every time there's an event, you plot it on here. And the things that you think about are what's the likelihood that people interact at this event?