The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need
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What are the current challenges of dating?
Hey, it's your friend Mel, and welcome to the Mel Robbins Podcast. Let's be real. Dating today feels broken. I mean, if you've ever caught yourself wondering, why is it so hard to find someone normal? Why does it always end in disappointment or something weird? Why is everybody out there a freak? I mean, no, seriously. I want you to know something. If you're feeling discouraged about dating, you're not alone. Maybe you're tired of putting yourself out there only to get rejected or ignored or ghosted. Maybe you've stopped dating altogether. Well, today, I want to change your entire approach to dating in the modern world using data. I don't care how old you are, how young you are, if you're in a relationship, a situationship, if you're not even sure what you're doing, everything you're about to learn today will change how you look at dating. You and I are going to sit down with Logan Urie, who is a Harvard-trained behavioral scientist who led teams at Google, who then pivoted to become a researcher on the science of love.
She is here after crunching data for five years as the director of relationship science at one of the largest online dating apps in the world. and she's gonna help you break out of the online dating patterns that just aren't working. Clearly, she's also going to teach you very specific changes you need to make to your approach if you're gonna use online dating apps, because you're probably not using them correctly. Logan has the data, the insights, and the experience to back up the very specific fundamental changes you need to make right now, for example, to your online dating profile. She wants you to shift your entire approach to the way you even think about dating and what she's about to share with you will transform the way you think about love, relationships, dating, and most importantly, yourself. So if you've ever felt like you're losing hope or that you're destined to be alone, you are wrong. You're not stuck. You're not too late. You can find the love that you deserve.
And this episode could be the moment that changes everything for you or someone you love. So let's get into it. Is it just me or does it feel impossible to stay in touch with and see your friends? I feel it. And I want you to stick around to the very end of this episode for a special segment where I'm going to talk all about the importance of staying connected to your friends and a ton of simple ways you can do it. And I want to give a big shout out to our sponsor of this bonus segment, Celebrity Cruises. You can learn more at celebritycruises.com. Visit celebrity.com for details. Ships registry, Malta and Ecuador. Hey, it's your friend Mel Robbins. I am so fired up that you're here. This is gonna be an extraordinary episode. I know that you're gonna share this with absolutely everybody that you love because the topic is fire and it's relevant and you need to hear this. And I just wanna say it's always an honor to get to spend some time and be together with you.
And if you're brand new, I wanna take a moment before we jump into this topic and welcome you to the Mel Robbins Podcast family. I think we're gonna have a lot of new listeners to this episode because this is such an important topic that I bet somebody shared this with you. And I also know that you're the type of person that values your time. And I promise you, this is going to be worth your time because there are a lot of you that listen that are in a committed relationship, but there's a lot of people that listen or that are in your life who are not. They're struggling. And I want you to know, I'm seeing it. I'm seeing it with the people that I love in my life. I'm seeing the struggles in the inbox as you're writing in from around the world, whether you're in your 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s, 70s. It is hard out there. In fact, I remember when my mother-in-law was a widower and she wanted to put herself out there, so we tried to get her on the apps. And it was frustrating. That was a decade ago. And it seems to have only gotten worse.
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Chapters
7 chapters
1
What are the current challenges of dating?
0:00–7:39
2
Who is Logan Urie and what insights does she offer?
7:39–12:23
3
How should you approach online dating differently?
12:23–28:07
4
What are the myths surrounding the 'spark' in relationships?
28:07–53:17
5
What should you do if you feel overwhelmed by dating?
53:17–58:09
6
How can you identify and break common dating patterns?
58:09–1:20:14
7
What are the three dating tendencies to be aware of?
1:20:14–1:27:40
Speakers
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