Logan Urie

Because you're freaking fantastic. I know. I think about that a lot. And when I coach people, I'm only meeting them and I'm only hearing their side of the story. So their homework assignment before they meet with me is that they ask their friends and family, why do you think I'm single? And then they come to their coaching session and tell me what they say. And what do you often hear?

Because you're freaking fantastic. I know. I think about that a lot. And when I coach people, I'm only meeting them and I'm only hearing their side of the story. So their homework assignment before they meet with me is that they ask their friends and family, why do you think I'm single? And then they come to their coaching session and tell me what they say. And what do you often hear?

You're too picky. You aren't putting yourself out there. You have unrealistic expectations. And then there's kind of the softy friends who are like, you're great. There's nothing wrong with you. I'm like, well, you're paying me for a reason. So let's talk about what's going on.

You're too picky. You aren't putting yourself out there. You have unrealistic expectations. And then there's kind of the softy friends who are like, you're great. There's nothing wrong with you. I'm like, well, you're paying me for a reason. So let's talk about what's going on.

You're too picky. You aren't putting yourself out there. You have unrealistic expectations. And then there's kind of the softy friends who are like, you're great. There's nothing wrong with you. I'm like, well, you're paying me for a reason. So let's talk about what's going on.

for that person or the hardest feedback to give somebody because I don't think I don't know about the too picky I don't know about yeah like those things like is there I think it's something like it really hurts me that I can sit I feel like you consistently are choosing people that are not good for you and I don't know what to do to make you value yourself more or take yourself more seriously but you need to run away from red flags that you are just not paying attention to

for that person or the hardest feedback to give somebody because I don't think I don't know about the too picky I don't know about yeah like those things like is there I think it's something like it really hurts me that I can sit I feel like you consistently are choosing people that are not good for you and I don't know what to do to make you value yourself more or take yourself more seriously but you need to run away from red flags that you are just not paying attention to

for that person or the hardest feedback to give somebody because I don't think I don't know about the too picky I don't know about yeah like those things like is there I think it's something like it really hurts me that I can sit I feel like you consistently are choosing people that are not good for you and I don't know what to do to make you value yourself more or take yourself more seriously but you need to run away from red flags that you are just not paying attention to

There's honestly a lot of different stories that people have. Like on the show, there's multiple people where I really had to coach them on being more vulnerable. Our vulnerability is what makes us human and what makes people feel like they can connect with us. But so often it's what people think makes them undateable.

There's honestly a lot of different stories that people have. Like on the show, there's multiple people where I really had to coach them on being more vulnerable. Our vulnerability is what makes us human and what makes people feel like they can connect with us. But so often it's what people think makes them undateable.

There's honestly a lot of different stories that people have. Like on the show, there's multiple people where I really had to coach them on being more vulnerable. Our vulnerability is what makes us human and what makes people feel like they can connect with us. But so often it's what people think makes them undateable.

And so about a year ago, I sent out this email that says, do you think you're undateable? And what do you think makes you undateable? And I got the most responses that I've ever gotten to any email where people are like, I'm undateable because I have an STI. I'm undateable because my partner in their 20s committed suicide. I'm undateable because I've never been in a relationship.

And so about a year ago, I sent out this email that says, do you think you're undateable? And what do you think makes you undateable? And I got the most responses that I've ever gotten to any email where people are like, I'm undateable because I have an STI. I'm undateable because my partner in their 20s committed suicide. I'm undateable because I've never been in a relationship.

And so about a year ago, I sent out this email that says, do you think you're undateable? And what do you think makes you undateable? And I got the most responses that I've ever gotten to any email where people are like, I'm undateable because I have an STI. I'm undateable because my partner in their 20s committed suicide. I'm undateable because I've never been in a relationship.

I'm undateable because I've been in too many relationships. Mm-hmm. And then I worked with them on how to kind of own this thing. And so it's going on a date and having a narrative down where you say, this thing happened to me. It was really challenging. Here's what I did about it. You have a narrative that helps you own your story. Do I have to have that for your first date?

I'm undateable because I've been in too many relationships. Mm-hmm. And then I worked with them on how to kind of own this thing. And so it's going on a date and having a narrative down where you say, this thing happened to me. It was really challenging. Here's what I did about it. You have a narrative that helps you own your story. Do I have to have that for your first date?

I'm undateable because I've been in too many relationships. Mm-hmm. And then I worked with them on how to kind of own this thing. And so it's going on a date and having a narrative down where you say, this thing happened to me. It was really challenging. Here's what I did about it. You have a narrative that helps you own your story. Do I have to have that for your first date?

No, I don't think you have to talk about this on a first date, but people aren't even going on the first date because they're so worried about the moment it comes up. Oh. And I want them to be going on the date and be ready if it comes up. So there's a person on the show who was disabled as a veteran, and there's a lot of stuff he can't do.

No, I don't think you have to talk about this on a first date, but people aren't even going on the first date because they're so worried about the moment it comes up. Oh. And I want them to be going on the date and be ready if it comes up. So there's a person on the show who was disabled as a veteran, and there's a lot of stuff he can't do.

No, I don't think you have to talk about this on a first date, but people aren't even going on the first date because they're so worried about the moment it comes up. Oh. And I want them to be going on the date and be ready if it comes up. So there's a person on the show who was disabled as a veteran, and there's a lot of stuff he can't do.