Logan Urie

It's so much better for people to date slowly, date one person at a time.

If you're an introvert, give yourself time to recover and then you don't have to go through this cycle of downloading Hinge, getting burnt out on Hinge, deleting Hinge, taking a break, then re-downloading it.

That download, delete,

repeat cycle doesn't feel good for people.

What should you do instead?

I think you should slow down and really look at yourself and say, I'm an introvert.

I can't go on more than one date a week without feeling burnt out, or I'm really passionate about my hobbies.

I need to keep time for that.

And so I think people should be going on a minimum number of dates to get themselves out there, but do it in a way where it feels like something you can sustain over time instead of going 60 miles an hour, burning out, and then needing to take a break.

Other things that people can do to avoid burnout are also being more proactive.

I know that sounds counterintuitive, but the research we found at HINN shows that some of the women that feel the most burned out are the women that get the most attention, feel overwhelmed by choice, and they're actually being more passive.

They're only looking at the people who come to them.

Instead, if they take a different approach and go after what they want, that feeling of being in the driver's seat is negatively correlated with feeling burned out.

In other words, the more that you go after what you want, the less burned out you feel.

Different states, different cities have different ages at which people marry.

I'm sure we all know people from the South who got married earlier.

I think it does differ based on region.

But overall, many people tell me I live in the worst city for dating.

And I think that when people have that attitude, it can be very self-fulfilling.

Yeah, I mean, even if we just take a step back and look at the questions that you're getting, a lot of them are, am I living in the wrong city and can I only meet someone on a dating app?