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Logan Urie

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
483 total appearances

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The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

And he isn't saying yes to any women who are athletic because, oh, well, when they want to go on a jog with me, I can't go on a jog with them. I'm like, you're an amazing guy. People would love to go on a date with you. They can go jog alone. They can jog with their friends.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

And he isn't saying yes to any women who are athletic because, oh, well, when they want to go on a jog with me, I can't go on a jog with them. I'm like, you're an amazing guy. People would love to go on a date with you. They can go jog alone. They can jog with their friends.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

And he isn't saying yes to any women who are athletic because, oh, well, when they want to go on a jog with me, I can't go on a jog with them. I'm like, you're an amazing guy. People would love to go on a date with you. They can go jog alone. They can jog with their friends.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Like they're looking for a partner, but you are disqualifying yourself because you don't want to have that conversation with them. And then that was my homework assignment that he did on the dates. And... I feel like this undateable thing is really big because it really goes down to self-love. I don't think I'm lovable. I think there's something wrong with me.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Like they're looking for a partner, but you are disqualifying yourself because you don't want to have that conversation with them. And then that was my homework assignment that he did on the dates. And... I feel like this undateable thing is really big because it really goes down to self-love. I don't think I'm lovable. I think there's something wrong with me.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Like they're looking for a partner, but you are disqualifying yourself because you don't want to have that conversation with them. And then that was my homework assignment that he did on the dates. And... I feel like this undateable thing is really big because it really goes down to self-love. I don't think I'm lovable. I think there's something wrong with me.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

If you found out this thing about me, you would reject me. So I'm not even going to meet you. So you can't reject me. And the flip of that is to say, we all have shit that happened to us. I'm not asking for your permission to be here. I'm not asking for your forgiveness. I don't want you to feel bad for me. I have baggage. You have baggage. Your baggage makes me feel safe.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

If you found out this thing about me, you would reject me. So I'm not even going to meet you. So you can't reject me. And the flip of that is to say, we all have shit that happened to us. I'm not asking for your permission to be here. I'm not asking for your forgiveness. I don't want you to feel bad for me. I have baggage. You have baggage. Your baggage makes me feel safe.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

If you found out this thing about me, you would reject me. So I'm not even going to meet you. So you can't reject me. And the flip of that is to say, we all have shit that happened to us. I'm not asking for your permission to be here. I'm not asking for your forgiveness. I don't want you to feel bad for me. I have baggage. You have baggage. Your baggage makes me feel safe.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Yes. So how I would advise people who are 50 plus is the same that I would say to really any dater, which is everyone comes with a set of problems. Choose the set of problems that you can handle. So I think where people get into trouble is where they think, if I keep on dating, if I'm a maximizer, eventually I'll find someone with no problems.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Yes. So how I would advise people who are 50 plus is the same that I would say to really any dater, which is everyone comes with a set of problems. Choose the set of problems that you can handle. So I think where people get into trouble is where they think, if I keep on dating, if I'm a maximizer, eventually I'll find someone with no problems.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Yes. So how I would advise people who are 50 plus is the same that I would say to really any dater, which is everyone comes with a set of problems. Choose the set of problems that you can handle. So I think where people get into trouble is where they think, if I keep on dating, if I'm a maximizer, eventually I'll find someone with no problems.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

You should switch that to the mindset of what are problems that I can deal with. And so yes, maybe people have more baggage, but there's baggage that you can deal with and baggage that you can't, and you get to choose.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

You should switch that to the mindset of what are problems that I can deal with. And so yes, maybe people have more baggage, but there's baggage that you can deal with and baggage that you can't, and you get to choose.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

You should switch that to the mindset of what are problems that I can deal with. And so yes, maybe people have more baggage, but there's baggage that you can deal with and baggage that you can't, and you get to choose.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Yes. One thing I do want to say to Jodi and to anyone else who's in this age group is just, I talked about what's harder about dating at this age group, and I think it's true, but I also want to talk about what's easier because I think that can be empowering. So one thing I really found on the show is that there's a greater sense of knowing yourself

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Yes. One thing I do want to say to Jodi and to anyone else who's in this age group is just, I talked about what's harder about dating at this age group, and I think it's true, but I also want to talk about what's easier because I think that can be empowering. So one thing I really found on the show is that there's a greater sense of knowing yourself

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Yes. One thing I do want to say to Jodi and to anyone else who's in this age group is just, I talked about what's harder about dating at this age group, and I think it's true, but I also want to talk about what's easier because I think that can be empowering. So one thing I really found on the show is that there's a greater sense of knowing yourself

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

I do think that we know ourselves better as we grow up. I'm so much happier in my 30s than I was in my 20s because I'm more comfortable with who I am. I trust myself more. I feel less of a need to get approval from others. So I think that is a beautiful part of wisdom as you get older. There's also less pressure to marry.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

I do think that we know ourselves better as we grow up. I'm so much happier in my 30s than I was in my 20s because I'm more comfortable with who I am. I trust myself more. I feel less of a need to get approval from others. So I think that is a beautiful part of wisdom as you get older. There's also less pressure to marry.