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Logan Urie

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
483 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

I do think that we know ourselves better as we grow up. I'm so much happier in my 30s than I was in my 20s because I'm more comfortable with who I am. I trust myself more. I feel less of a need to get approval from others. So I think that is a beautiful part of wisdom as you get older. There's also less pressure to marry.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

And so I think that when you're dating in your 20s and 30s, there's so much pressure of, am I going to raise kids with this person? Is my family going to accept that? Well, guess what? When you're dating in this age group, you're not about to have kids with them. So you can choose someone who you might not have chosen the first time around.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

And so I think that when you're dating in your 20s and 30s, there's so much pressure of, am I going to raise kids with this person? Is my family going to accept that? Well, guess what? When you're dating in this age group, you're not about to have kids with them. So you can choose someone who you might not have chosen the first time around.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

And so I think that when you're dating in your 20s and 30s, there's so much pressure of, am I going to raise kids with this person? Is my family going to accept that? Well, guess what? When you're dating in this age group, you're not about to have kids with them. So you can choose someone who you might not have chosen the first time around.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

You actually are open to dating different types of people because there's less pressure. I love that.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

You actually are open to dating different types of people because there's less pressure. I love that.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

You actually are open to dating different types of people because there's less pressure. I love that.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

The first thing that I would do is really reflect on what you want. So you may not want a traditional relationship. There's a big trend of living apart together where you don't merge your households. You don't merge your finances. You can be married or you can be in a relationship, but you don't have to give up your house or your apartment and be open to things working a different way.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

The first thing that I would do is really reflect on what you want. So you may not want a traditional relationship. There's a big trend of living apart together where you don't merge your households. You don't merge your finances. You can be married or you can be in a relationship, but you don't have to give up your house or your apartment and be open to things working a different way.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

The first thing that I would do is really reflect on what you want. So you may not want a traditional relationship. There's a big trend of living apart together where you don't merge your households. You don't merge your finances. You can be married or you can be in a relationship, but you don't have to give up your house or your apartment and be open to things working a different way.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Another thing is to really know yourself. So what are my patterns? What have I been doing over and over? What do I want to do differently this time? And really what we've been saying, look in the mirror. Another thing is that societal norms are changing. So this came up on the show, The Later Daters, where I would say to someone, you're following an outdated playbook. Stop being so coy.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Another thing is to really know yourself. So what are my patterns? What have I been doing over and over? What do I want to do differently this time? And really what we've been saying, look in the mirror. Another thing is that societal norms are changing. So this came up on the show, The Later Daters, where I would say to someone, you're following an outdated playbook. Stop being so coy.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Another thing is to really know yourself. So what are my patterns? What have I been doing over and over? What do I want to do differently this time? And really what we've been saying, look in the mirror. Another thing is that societal norms are changing. So this came up on the show, The Later Daters, where I would say to someone, you're following an outdated playbook. Stop being so coy.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Call the guy back. Tell him that you're interested. Like, you are a career businesswoman, but you're in the corner kind of not expressing what you want. Just go after it. And so sort of understand what outdated models you're currently following. I love that.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Call the guy back. Tell him that you're interested. Like, you are a career businesswoman, but you're in the corner kind of not expressing what you want. Just go after it. And so sort of understand what outdated models you're currently following. I love that.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

Call the guy back. Tell him that you're interested. Like, you are a career businesswoman, but you're in the corner kind of not expressing what you want. Just go after it. And so sort of understand what outdated models you're currently following. I love that.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

My advice for everyone and not just for dating is life doesn't happen to you. And if that is your way of thinking about the world, you're really missing out. So the client who says to me, these situationships keep happening and nobody will commit to me. Well, they're not happening to you. You are choosing people who are not ready, who are not emotionally open, who don't want to commit to you.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

My advice for everyone and not just for dating is life doesn't happen to you. And if that is your way of thinking about the world, you're really missing out. So the client who says to me, these situationships keep happening and nobody will commit to me. Well, they're not happening to you. You are choosing people who are not ready, who are not emotionally open, who don't want to commit to you.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

My advice for everyone and not just for dating is life doesn't happen to you. And if that is your way of thinking about the world, you're really missing out. So the client who says to me, these situationships keep happening and nobody will commit to me. Well, they're not happening to you. You are choosing people who are not ready, who are not emotionally open, who don't want to commit to you.

The Mel Robbins Podcast
The Only Dating Advice You'll Ever Need

And then you're saying life is happening to me. That's being in the passenger seat of your love life and your life in general. So get out of the car, move to the driver's seat, take control of your dating life. And that's really how you're going to find and build the relationship of your dreams.