Lucy Hale

My whole life completely changed. But I have been lucky that a lot of... Like my family, I have some... All of my closest friends have been my friends for years, years, years. And they were, you know, stood by my side. But a lot of my life...

My whole life completely changed. But I have been lucky that a lot of... Like my family, I have some... All of my closest friends have been my friends for years, years, years. And they were, you know, stood by my side. But a lot of my life...

changed look different the second year was more about like okay i need to integrate into the world and have fun but i was you know i can't like sit at home in my house all day with my dogs although it's pretty fun too though and then the third year so the year i just came out because i'm in my going to my fourth year my third year was like everything changed really last year

changed look different the second year was more about like okay i need to integrate into the world and have fun but i was you know i can't like sit at home in my house all day with my dogs although it's pretty fun too though and then the third year so the year i just came out because i'm in my going to my fourth year my third year was like everything changed really last year

Everything I had bottled up came to the surface. It was like I got hit with everything one after one and I was like emotional whiplash. And luckily work was, I had a lot of time last year to deal. You know, it's funny how those things, I was like, thank you universe. Cause I really needed time to sit with it.

Everything I had bottled up came to the surface. It was like I got hit with everything one after one and I was like emotional whiplash. And luckily work was, I had a lot of time last year to deal. You know, it's funny how those things, I was like, thank you universe. Cause I really needed time to sit with it.

It's like, I'm busy. Like I'm booked and busy. I don't have to worry about my like emotions or whatever. Like stupid. Um, but I had the time and, and it was during that year where I realized, Oh, like if I changed the way I think and I believe it and I embody that, like I can change everything in my life. And so,

It's like, I'm busy. Like I'm booked and busy. I don't have to worry about my like emotions or whatever. Like stupid. Um, but I had the time and, and it was during that year where I realized, Oh, like if I changed the way I think and I believe it and I embody that, like I can change everything in my life. And so,

it wasn't all bad. Like there were moments, I think I've always had like an innate sense of purpose. Like I always was like, I'm here to do something important. I haven't always known what that is, but I've always had, I always feel like I've been very open and I've had a good heart. Like I wasn't just constantly like shitting on myself, you know? But I think a lot of the limiting beliefs were,

it wasn't all bad. Like there were moments, I think I've always had like an innate sense of purpose. Like I always was like, I'm here to do something important. I haven't always known what that is, but I've always had, I always feel like I've been very open and I've had a good heart. Like I wasn't just constantly like shitting on myself, you know? But I think a lot of the limiting beliefs were,

Playing small. I thought I needed to be really quiet.

Playing small. I thought I needed to be really quiet.

And just, yeah. Yeah, really, I thought, because to me, the limiting belief of speaking up, setting boundaries, speaking your mind, I was like, oh, that is a troubled woman. Like, that is too much. That, this, a theme in my life, For all the girlies listening, I feel like it is a similar thing with women feeling like we're too much, too emotional, too complex, whatever it is.

And just, yeah. Yeah, really, I thought, because to me, the limiting belief of speaking up, setting boundaries, speaking your mind, I was like, oh, that is a troubled woman. Like, that is too much. That, this, a theme in my life, For all the girlies listening, I feel like it is a similar thing with women feeling like we're too much, too emotional, too complex, whatever it is.

And I really tried to make myself small and and it worked because I'm like five foot two. I'm like, I'm physically small and I and I just need to be the nice girl and I need to be really polite and I need to do what people tell me. And then then, you know, I'm going to be accepted and loved and adored, whatever.

And I really tried to make myself small and and it worked because I'm like five foot two. I'm like, I'm physically small and I and I just need to be the nice girl and I need to be really polite and I need to do what people tell me. And then then, you know, I'm going to be accepted and loved and adored, whatever.

And it did kind of work for a while, but I felt I didn't feel like myself because I do have opinions and I do have ideas and I know what I want. I definitely know what I don't want. And it's so fun to be able to stand in a place of power while also being kind. I think I thought if you spoke up, you were not kind, but it's just not true. Like there's a way to do it.

And it did kind of work for a while, but I felt I didn't feel like myself because I do have opinions and I do have ideas and I know what I want. I definitely know what I don't want. And it's so fun to be able to stand in a place of power while also being kind. I think I thought if you spoke up, you were not kind, but it's just not true. Like there's a way to do it.

The courage to be disliked, like that is powerful. But guess what? You're actually doing things right if people don't like you, because living in your truth and be, I have found that when I've been, and it's kind of what we were talking about earlier, when I have felt the most aligned, been speaking my truth, like emanating my inner light,

The courage to be disliked, like that is powerful. But guess what? You're actually doing things right if people don't like you, because living in your truth and be, I have found that when I've been, and it's kind of what we were talking about earlier, when I have felt the most aligned, been speaking my truth, like emanating my inner light,