Lucy Meggeson

But would I still fall for some...

you know, guy who I knew in my... Intuitively wasn't good for me, but would I go there anyway?

I don't trust myself.

Firstly, remember that you are very much not alone and there are so many more single women out there than you probably realise.

So many more.

And also what you've got to remember is that the reason you feel like that isn't because you inherently feel like that.

It's not, you know, it comes from yourself.

the societal narrative it comes from all of the stories around single women and this is like I mean we haven't actually we haven't talked about this at all but you know that is I believe a huge part of the problem with a lot of women who are single is it's actually more about what other people think it's more about the stories around it that they're telling themselves than the actual

state of being single.

So I would just say, look at, um, look at the beliefs that you have.

Like, why do you believe that if you're single, then you're not enough?

Or why do you believe that you're less than?

Why do you believe that you're a failure?

And just really look at what you're telling yourself and the

Going back to what we were talking about at the very, very beginning about paying attention to our inputs and manifestation and all of that, make sure that you are focusing your attention on single women who are rocking their lives and who are happy.

Because the more you see of that, the more evidence you get that actually being single can be awesome and a lot more women are choosing to do it, the more you'll be like, do you know what?

It's not that bad.

It's all about like if you just...

make sure that you are, you know, focusing on, paying attention to, following as many women as possible who are loving their single lives.

That is how we change.