Lucy Meggeson

It is the ideal opportunity to really lean into the things and get clear on what you want without being distracted by a guy.

Because I don't know about you, but when I'm in a relationship, my life becomes about the guy.

All of my dreams and the things that I'm focused on and the things that I truly want, they go out of the goddamn window because I'm suddenly more concerned by the relationship.

I did a reel really recently on Instagram about de-centering men.

we have been conditioned to center men as women.

And I was one of those girls that did that.

And in all of my, and actually I've had some, don't get me wrong, I've had many relationships and I've had many lovely boyfriends, but I did center them as being the most important thing in my world rather than,

Actually, what does Lucy want to do?

So yeah, going back to your question, those two huge benefits.

Number one, you get to focus on what you want and think about where it is that you're headed and what your direction is.

And number two, and this is huge, is not having someone to bring your vibe down.

Because

As you and I both know, because I'm really into manifestation as well, it's so much about prioritizing feeling good.

And if you're in a relationship with somebody really negative, because there is no doubt that living with somebody negative, it's very, very difficult for that not to rub off on you.

And in fact, one of the things that I talk about a lot is

No, it is not a coincidence.

No.

I mean, but this is what women do.

And going back to what you were saying about how you and your friends would, like, I mean, honestly, exactly the same.

Through my teens, my 20s, my 30s,