Luisa Zisman

She wanted to have a baby or she got pregnant and decided to have her baby.

So yes, she is then living her own choices of which then you shouldn't have to mould your life depending on her choices.

What I would say, my honest opinion is, I think two truths can exist in this one in that sometimes...

you probably can't repair yeah I think she obviously does feel a bit my mum's literally the other side of the world living her new best life and I'm over here which maybe plays in in her moments of vulnerability we all know what it's like having a baby it is really hard she obviously has family there I'm curious to know my therapist head says I'm really curious to know what that dynamic is where there is some relationship breakdown between you and the other family members so

Well, so I'm wondering if any of those influences have also gone into your daughter where it's throwing shade at you.

I wonder if all it takes is a couple of, well, your mum just fucking left you type comments for you to start going in your vulnerable moments of actually fucking, yeah, I need some help right now.

uh child old enough to live their own life like if the kid decided to go and live in Australia you just have to suck that up as a mother like why is it and I think for for you Hannah you made the choice to go to New Zealand for career opportunities which again is perfectly your choice I think

As parents, we never know what the outcome is going to be.

Some kids couldn't give a shit.

You know, you might have seen it as a brilliant, my mum's fucked off and given me a bit of independence.

I mean, Dixie hates us being bad.

This is what I mean.

She says we drive her mad.

Too noisy.

She likes her independence.

She wants her peace back.

But every child is different.

And some kids might be left behind.

I think you've given all the right choices.

You offered her to come and live with you.