Lulu Miller
speaker
3,713 appearances
28 recordings
5 series
first heard Mar 2025
last heard 18 Sep
Lulu Miller’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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As I luxuriate into middle age, into mothering, into marriage, I find myself more and more turning to silence.
As anger rises in me or yearning, I turn to silence to coexist, to connect, to mend, to
to encounter some bit of good left in another person, left in this burning and blustery world.
And so I wondered, was there any way that what was going on in the fish could explain this, that the female fish was choosing in the silent male just a more pure and honest offering of self?
So I asked Dr. Bass,
So the silent male, does he use silence in a way that's analogous to like a rack of tail feathers or gorgeous antlers?
Like, is the silence a feature that he's actually like a way that he can like actively attract a female?
Okay, so then how does the silent male get the girl?
To get the girl, Dr. Bass explained, first of all, you need to know that they don't call him the silent male, but rather... Sneaker males.
And when you say sneaker male, it's not because he's sporting cool Reeboks.
What do you mean?
Okay, so sneaky, skulking, stealth mode.
So, OK, so we're at the point where our singer has he has sung his little heart out.
He's attracted her and it's that 24 hour window while she's in there and he's like caressing her to help her lay the eggs.
Yeah.
And then what happens with this silent male?
So wait, there'd be three of them in there?
Yeah.
Okay.
Yeah.
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