Marcy Blum

I think 20 years ago, which I just read something in The Times last week about what a new trend to personalize your wedding.

I was like, are you kidding?

You know, that was 20 years ago.

Okay.

So I think 20 years ago, it went from being a formulaic, you know, first dance, cake cutting, blah, blah, blah, to how does it evoke who you are?

What's an example of that?

Signature cocktails originally, which now seems like, are you kidding?

But then it was as if, you know, I invented the moon.

I was, what a great idea.

Oh, I'm sure it was a martini that we called something else.

Like, you know, the Mr. and Mrs. Fluff-off-tini, whatever.

And I was like, I'm brilliant.

And then monograms and things like that.

That became really, you know, it was all personalized.

But I think now...

In the past 10 years, it is maybe not exactly who you are, but who you'd like to be is more of what is happening.

How you see yourself in the best case example or the most creative example or the most arty persona.

And I say it all the time.

I think creativity is the new flex as opposed to money.

What's an example of creativity versus just spend?