Margarita Nazarenko

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7,348 appearances 17 recordings 1 series first heard May 2026 last heard 6 Sep

Margarita Nazarenko’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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BEING HER with Margarita Nazarenko · 179: Stop Being the Good Girl. Become BOSSY. · 23 Aug 2026 podcast

I've learnt to do it podcast-host

so much over life that I say it as as I mean it, like I literally mean it, because the price for me to think of what I want and I describe this to my mum is more painful podcast-host

like cognitively and in my life than just going along with it, okay? podcast-host

But the more you dumb down your preferences and you erase yourself, the less you know yourself and the less you become somebody podcast-host

To be admired and revered, right? podcast-host

There's a psychological phenomena that um psychologists found that women often say if that's okay or I don't mind at the end of sentences. podcast-host

The most interesting way to see if you say that is when somebody asks you something, you will always qualify it with if that's okay or I don't mind or something along that nature. podcast-host

You are trying to belong more than you are trying to lead yourself. podcast-host

Point number three is I think women mistake leadership and being self-led and having autonomy and deciding what it is they want to do for control. podcast-host

And I've talked a lot in my book Unbothered and here on this podcast about control being a false scenario in which, let's say, you have a partner who might not be doing the right thing by you or they might be disrespecting you somehow, the illusion of control that you have. podcast-host

Is that podcast-host

let's say he goes out late and you berate him for it, that you can actually control his behavior in a way that is not gonna hurt you, or you can control him in a way that um to to look at his phone, let's say if he thinks if you think he's disrespecting you behind your back or cheating or something like that. podcast-host

And the dichotomy of control is that you cannot control someone's bad behavior out of them, right? podcast-host

And in so doing, you're forgetting yourself and putting yourself on the back burner podcast-host

That is the whole codependency issue. podcast-host

A codependent will even neglect to brush their teeth to get up in the morning, she says from her bed. podcast-host

But listen, I know usually podcasts like this, this is a new this is a new trial. podcast-host

Okay, if you're watching this, I am lying in my bed. podcast-host

Who cares? podcast-host

Right? podcast-host

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