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like got married too young. And I said, well, did you ever try couples therapy? And he said, yes. And he's like, I love that you asked that question. Like I would want that in a future partner and stuff like that. So I was like, Oh, okay. Green flags. Cool. So fast forward, we dated for 11 months, met his family. He is from England. So I flew to England and met his family.
We even went to Paris for a weekend. He met my family, came to my brother's wedding, very like asking like, where are you at? Where are your feelings at? Et cetera. He was always very reassuring. I felt very respected, considered, loved in the relationship. But about five months in, I brought up like my feelings because he hadn't said I love you yet.
We even went to Paris for a weekend. He met my family, came to my brother's wedding, very like asking like, where are you at? Where are your feelings at? Et cetera. He was always very reassuring. I felt very respected, considered, loved in the relationship. But about five months in, I brought up like my feelings because he hadn't said I love you yet.
We even went to Paris for a weekend. He met my family, came to my brother's wedding, very like asking like, where are you at? Where are your feelings at? Et cetera. He was always very reassuring. I felt very respected, considered, loved in the relationship. But about five months in, I brought up like my feelings because he hadn't said I love you yet.
And I hadn't said it either, but I was feeling those feelings. So I brought that up because we were just about to go to England to meet his family. And I just wanted to know where he was at. And he said that he just wants to be really sure when he says that. And I found out more about his divorce. He got kind of screwed over financially. She didn't want to go to therapy, stuff like that.
And I hadn't said it either, but I was feeling those feelings. So I brought that up because we were just about to go to England to meet his family. And I just wanted to know where he was at. And he said that he just wants to be really sure when he says that. And I found out more about his divorce. He got kind of screwed over financially. She didn't want to go to therapy, stuff like that.
And I hadn't said it either, but I was feeling those feelings. So I brought that up because we were just about to go to England to meet his family. And I just wanted to know where he was at. And he said that he just wants to be really sure when he says that. And I found out more about his divorce. He got kind of screwed over financially. She didn't want to go to therapy, stuff like that.
So I was like, okay, that makes sense. And he's like, I said, so you just want me to be patient? He said, yes, just, you know, be patient. So when we go to England, he says, I feel closer to you. Like everything is just going great. So much so that I was moving cities and he was actually planning on moving to the same city. We started dating about an hour, like we were living about an hour apart.
So I was like, okay, that makes sense. And he's like, I said, so you just want me to be patient? He said, yes, just, you know, be patient. So when we go to England, he says, I feel closer to you. Like everything is just going great. So much so that I was moving cities and he was actually planning on moving to the same city. We started dating about an hour, like we were living about an hour apart.
So I was like, okay, that makes sense. And he's like, I said, so you just want me to be patient? He said, yes, just, you know, be patient. So when we go to England, he says, I feel closer to you. Like everything is just going great. So much so that I was moving cities and he was actually planning on moving to the same city. We started dating about an hour, like we were living about an hour apart.
And then I moved about two hours away from him. And then he followed eventually because he was waiting on his house to sell. When he sold his house, I said, you know, why don't you just stay with me for a little bit? Because he was trying to buy another house. And so he said, oh yeah, that's a great idea. We can like see how that goes. Looking back, it was not a great idea, but why not?
And then I moved about two hours away from him. And then he followed eventually because he was waiting on his house to sell. When he sold his house, I said, you know, why don't you just stay with me for a little bit? Because he was trying to buy another house. And so he said, oh yeah, that's a great idea. We can like see how that goes. Looking back, it was not a great idea, but why not?
And then I moved about two hours away from him. And then he followed eventually because he was waiting on his house to sell. When he sold his house, I said, you know, why don't you just stay with me for a little bit? Because he was trying to buy another house. And so he said, oh yeah, that's a great idea. We can like see how that goes. Looking back, it was not a great idea, but why not?
Just because he hadn't said I love you yet. And I was just like, I don't it was supposed to be temporary. And then when he did move in, everything went great to where when he was looking at houses, he was considering me moving with him into his new house. And I don't know. So fast forward, we get he goes to Thanksgiving with me with my family goes to Christmas with me with my family.
Just because he hadn't said I love you yet. And I was just like, I don't it was supposed to be temporary. And then when he did move in, everything went great to where when he was looking at houses, he was considering me moving with him into his new house. And I don't know. So fast forward, we get he goes to Thanksgiving with me with my family goes to Christmas with me with my family.
Just because he hadn't said I love you yet. And I was just like, I don't it was supposed to be temporary. And then when he did move in, everything went great to where when he was looking at houses, he was considering me moving with him into his new house. And I don't know. So fast forward, we get he goes to Thanksgiving with me with my family goes to Christmas with me with my family.
And then after the new year, he got distant and I brought up, hey, I feel a little disconnected from you right now. Something I'd like learn from your show to ask. And he was like, yeah, I actually think we're a little too comfortable and like too complacent. And I'm like, OK, what does that mean? Exactly. I was just like, what do you mean?
And then after the new year, he got distant and I brought up, hey, I feel a little disconnected from you right now. Something I'd like learn from your show to ask. And he was like, yeah, I actually think we're a little too comfortable and like too complacent. And I'm like, OK, what does that mean? Exactly. I was just like, what do you mean?
And then after the new year, he got distant and I brought up, hey, I feel a little disconnected from you right now. Something I'd like learn from your show to ask. And he was like, yeah, I actually think we're a little too comfortable and like too complacent. And I'm like, OK, what does that mean? Exactly. I was just like, what do you mean?
And he was like, I think like, because at that point, he was like, well, this was supposed to be temporary. And now we're talking about me staying here because he had put in an offer on a house and it didn't work out. So then he was going to stay with me till my lease was up. And then we were going to move together. Okay. And I said, basically, like, okay.