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The Dr. John Delony Show

My Son’s Girlfriend Is 2 Years Younger Than Me

Fri, 30 May 2025

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Chapter 1: What should I do if my son is dating someone significantly older?

179.398 - 188.48 Dr. John Delony

Okay, good. Because my nine-year-old is not having me right now. And so I need to pass on nine-year-old parenting questions. But I'm happy to lecture you on adult child questions. What's up?

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188.84 - 201.142 Denise (Sleep paralysis sufferer)

Please do. So my 20-year-old son, he's my oldest. He has started a relationship with a 37-year-old woman. And I want to know if I'm irrational for trying to steer him away from her.

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205.263 - 205.883 Dr. John Delony

How old are you?

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207.423 - 207.563 Denise (Sleep paralysis sufferer)

I'm 39.

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208.124 - 213.408 Dr. John Delony

No way. Have you tried to fight her like at a pool hall?

215.069 - 216.01 Denise (Sleep paralysis sufferer)

No, I haven't met her.

216.491 - 222.756 Dr. John Delony

Good gosh. How'd you find out he's dating a 37 year old? He just came home and volunteered that?

224.217 - 229.361 Denise (Sleep paralysis sufferer)

No, of course not. No. So my son got a job with my husband with through his work.

229.381 - 229.842 Dr. John Delony

Okay.

Chapter 2: How can I communicate effectively with my adult child?

1802.752 - 1813.071 Marie

No, no, not, not really. No, he's, he, he's, have you been his mother for the last 20 years? Pretty much.

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1813.091 - 1816.373 Dr. John Delony

Okay. That's where you start. That's where you start, Marie.

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1816.393 - 1817.214 Marie

Yeah, I felt like his mom.

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1817.234 - 1822.957 Dr. John Delony

That's where you got to start. I've been your mom for the last 20 years, and I've got to be done with that. I want to be your wife.

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1822.997 - 1834.064 Marie

Yeah, I've kind of felt like his mom that he lost years ago, and I have a fourth child in my house in a way.

1834.684 - 1840.688 Dr. John Delony

So there's a both end to that conversation. He has acted like a fourth child, and you have treated him like one.

1841.772 - 1842.072 Marie

Yeah.

1842.292 - 1844.053 Dr. John Delony

Both of you have participated in this dance.

1845.193 - 1845.373 Marie

Yep.

Chapter 3: What are the risks of a large age gap in relationships?

3379.978 - 3387.563 Dr. John Delony

Okay, my son's 15, so there's a legality thing there, but I'm trying to imagine him – what is that? That's 33?

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3388.344 - 3389.865 Kelly

Yeah, because four years difference. Yeah.

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3390.045 - 3391.426 Dr. John Delony

I can't even – I can't – No.

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3391.906 - 3394.14 Kelly

No. No.

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3394.921 - 3396.883 Dr. John Delony

Wow.

3396.903 - 3402.509 Kelly

I would be in jail. Let's just say that. I would probably be in jail.

3403.05 - 3407.655 Dr. John Delony

Again. You've been in jail a few times before, and you're like, I'm going back to jail.

3407.715 - 3408.896 Kelly

Teardrop tattoo.

3408.916 - 3410.298 Dr. John Delony

You do have teardrop tattoos.

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