Marie

So I was just like, and I asked him on our first date, are you healed from all of that? And he said, yes. And I was like, well, obviously you were like I said that I feel like you have a mental block from saying I love you. Like, I don't know. So he said he was going to go back to therapy. And I went to my therapist and she recommended couples therapy.

So I was just like, and I asked him on our first date, are you healed from all of that? And he said, yes. And I was like, well, obviously you were like I said that I feel like you have a mental block from saying I love you. Like, I don't know. So he said he was going to go back to therapy. And I went to my therapist and she recommended couples therapy.

So I was just like, and I asked him on our first date, are you healed from all of that? And he said, yes. And I was like, well, obviously you were like I said that I feel like you have a mental block from saying I love you. Like, I don't know. So he said he was going to go back to therapy. And I went to my therapist and she recommended couples therapy.

I brought that up to him and he said, well, let me go to my therapist for a couple of weeks. And I'm not saying no, but I just want to like.

I brought that up to him and he said, well, let me go to my therapist for a couple of weeks. And I'm not saying no, but I just want to like.

I brought that up to him and he said, well, let me go to my therapist for a couple of weeks. And I'm not saying no, but I just want to like.

No, not yet. He was just saying like we talked about it and he said I did a couple of things that reminded him of his ex. So he just kind of like shut down.

No, not yet. He was just saying like we talked about it and he said I did a couple of things that reminded him of his ex. So he just kind of like shut down.

No, not yet. He was just saying like we talked about it and he said I did a couple of things that reminded him of his ex. So he just kind of like shut down.

Yeah, it was me asking him about he wanted to go to this festival and I had to work that day and he was going with some friends. And I said, well, who are the who are the friends you're going with? Are there guys or girls? Because I was trying to get that day off. So I was just trying to like see if I could go.

Yeah, it was me asking him about he wanted to go to this festival and I had to work that day and he was going with some friends. And I said, well, who are the who are the friends you're going with? Are there guys or girls? Because I was trying to get that day off. So I was just trying to like see if I could go.

Yeah, it was me asking him about he wanted to go to this festival and I had to work that day and he was going with some friends. And I said, well, who are the who are the friends you're going with? Are there guys or girls? Because I was trying to get that day off. So I was just trying to like see if I could go.

well he got really weird and then he said well it's just the guys from the gym and I was like okay and I was like so no girls are going like you don't want me to go and he said well yeah I just kind of want to go with the guys from the gym and I said oh okay no problem like I was trying to get the day off because I wanted to go but so like things like that I guess his ex was like an anxious avoidant where she would make him feel bad for like going out but wouldn't want to spend time with him when he was home

well he got really weird and then he said well it's just the guys from the gym and I was like okay and I was like so no girls are going like you don't want me to go and he said well yeah I just kind of want to go with the guys from the gym and I said oh okay no problem like I was trying to get the day off because I wanted to go but so like things like that I guess his ex was like an anxious avoidant where she would make him feel bad for like going out but wouldn't want to spend time with him when he was home

well he got really weird and then he said well it's just the guys from the gym and I was like okay and I was like so no girls are going like you don't want me to go and he said well yeah I just kind of want to go with the guys from the gym and I said oh okay no problem like I was trying to get the day off because I wanted to go but so like things like that I guess his ex was like an anxious avoidant where she would make him feel bad for like going out but wouldn't want to spend time with him when he was home

I think he was projecting what was being triggered from his past.

I think he was projecting what was being triggered from his past.

I think he was projecting what was being triggered from his past.

Because I was like, I agree. That's a fair question. And we talked about that. And he said, oh, I feel better. So then we tried to work on it. But he was still living with me while he was trying to move out. So the problem was, like, I was asking, like, hey, like, I just need a little reassurance. Like, you can't say you love me. I just need to know you still want to be with me and work on this.

Because I was like, I agree. That's a fair question. And we talked about that. And he said, oh, I feel better. So then we tried to work on it. But he was still living with me while he was trying to move out. So the problem was, like, I was asking, like, hey, like, I just need a little reassurance. Like, you can't say you love me. I just need to know you still want to be with me and work on this.