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Because I was like, I agree. That's a fair question. And we talked about that. And he said, oh, I feel better. So then we tried to work on it. But he was still living with me while he was trying to move out. So the problem was, like, I was asking, like, hey, like, I just need a little reassurance. Like, you can't say you love me. I just need to know you still want to be with me and work on this.

And he just was getting more distant and weird. And then... We had a date night and at the end of the date night, I don't know, I just felt like things were off. So I was like, he's not a words of affirmation guy. And I'm very much like, I need to hear it, especially like when you show it in all the other ways, but I need to know what you're thinking. Right.

And he just was getting more distant and weird. And then... We had a date night and at the end of the date night, I don't know, I just felt like things were off. So I was like, he's not a words of affirmation guy. And I'm very much like, I need to hear it, especially like when you show it in all the other ways, but I need to know what you're thinking. Right.

And he just was getting more distant and weird. And then... We had a date night and at the end of the date night, I don't know, I just felt like things were off. So I was like, he's not a words of affirmation guy. And I'm very much like, I need to hear it, especially like when you show it in all the other ways, but I need to know what you're thinking. Right.

So I brought up, I was like, well, can you tell me something to love about me? Like in a joking, funny way, like we're watching TV. And then he just like kind of got weird and was like, don't you're being ridiculous. And I was like, why is that ridiculous? And he just like kind of laughed and was being silly, but saying like, that's ridiculous. And I said, no, it's not.

So I brought up, I was like, well, can you tell me something to love about me? Like in a joking, funny way, like we're watching TV. And then he just like kind of got weird and was like, don't you're being ridiculous. And I was like, why is that ridiculous? And he just like kind of laughed and was being silly, but saying like, that's ridiculous. And I said, no, it's not.

So I brought up, I was like, well, can you tell me something to love about me? Like in a joking, funny way, like we're watching TV. And then he just like kind of got weird and was like, don't you're being ridiculous. And I was like, why is that ridiculous? And he just like kind of laughed and was being silly, but saying like, that's ridiculous. And I said, no, it's not.

And I said, I'm really struggling. Like, I just want to know, like, you care. And then he instead of talking to me, he got up to the other side of the room and was like extremely distant. And then that was the night where I was like, OK, like we're we're having a real fight. issue. And so then I said, I need space, like clearly you need space.

And I said, I'm really struggling. Like, I just want to know, like, you care. And then he instead of talking to me, he got up to the other side of the room and was like extremely distant. And then that was the night where I was like, OK, like we're we're having a real fight. issue. And so then I said, I need space, like clearly you need space.

And I said, I'm really struggling. Like, I just want to know, like, you care. And then he instead of talking to me, he got up to the other side of the room and was like extremely distant. And then that was the night where I was like, OK, like we're we're having a real fight. issue. And so then I said, I need space, like clearly you need space.

And then the week after he went out of town for work for a week. So it gave us that space. And it just like felt like very matter of fact and weird. And so when he came back, I basically told him like, hey, like either we go to couples therapy and like figure this out and like have a guideline on how to like take this slow or we break up because I'm not gonna sit here and wait around for you to

And then the week after he went out of town for work for a week. So it gave us that space. And it just like felt like very matter of fact and weird. And so when he came back, I basically told him like, hey, like either we go to couples therapy and like figure this out and like have a guideline on how to like take this slow or we break up because I'm not gonna sit here and wait around for you to

And then the week after he went out of town for work for a week. So it gave us that space. And it just like felt like very matter of fact and weird. And so when he came back, I basically told him like, hey, like either we go to couples therapy and like figure this out and like have a guideline on how to like take this slow or we break up because I'm not gonna sit here and wait around for you to

figure out what's going on in your head like if you're not keeping me in the loop because he was basically asking for distance but it was like indefinite distance where I was like I can't do that so technically you kind of ended the relationship yeah technically I ended it but he he showed he said he doesn't have the capacity like he said I can't do it and didn't want to go to couples therapy said it was too early for couples therapy which makes no sense he said he wanted to do preventative couples therapy on our first date I was like

figure out what's going on in your head like if you're not keeping me in the loop because he was basically asking for distance but it was like indefinite distance where I was like I can't do that so technically you kind of ended the relationship yeah technically I ended it but he he showed he said he doesn't have the capacity like he said I can't do it and didn't want to go to couples therapy said it was too early for couples therapy which makes no sense he said he wanted to do preventative couples therapy on our first date I was like

figure out what's going on in your head like if you're not keeping me in the loop because he was basically asking for distance but it was like indefinite distance where I was like I can't do that so technically you kind of ended the relationship yeah technically I ended it but he he showed he said he doesn't have the capacity like he said I can't do it and didn't want to go to couples therapy said it was too early for couples therapy which makes no sense he said he wanted to do preventative couples therapy on our first date I was like

Yeah.

Yeah.

Yeah.

So he moved out January 25th. So it was about two months ago, a little over two months ago.