Marie

And so then like they, when we were, when you were being intimate and I was like, so like, how would you envision this?

Like, where would we be meeting this person?

What do you see happening?

And of course, then that starts building his excitement because he's like, whoa, okay, she's thinking about it.

She's asking questions.

And it just, you know, it took about, I don't know, three, four months or so of me like slowly asking a little bit more and a little bit more.

And, you know, like I said, kind of getting that excitement built up.

And then it was to the point of like, well, okay, how would you go about finding this person?

Like, and then like a little bit of my background, my ex has been cheated on me.

And so my big thing was like, I don't want to just find some random dude and come to find out it's him cheating on his wife.

Oh, right.

For sure.

I had like, I had a lot of like stipulations where it's like, all right, well, how are you going to meet this person?

How are you going to vet him?

How do you know he's, he's real?

How do you know, you know, this, that, and the other?

Right.

And so it wasn't, I wasn't challenging him to like, to fight it.

It was more, all right, well, if you're going to make this a reality, how are you going to be able to, you know, overcome these different things?

And so I, like I said, I think it was really just kind of planting that seed, letting me