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Strictly Anonymous Confessions

1440 - Marie Went from Being Very Vanilla to Hotwifing

27 Apr 2026

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Chapter 1: What is the main topic discussed in this episode?

0.031 - 15.306 Kathy Kay

Hey, welcome to the Strictly Anonymous podcast with Kathy. If you want to follow the Strictly Anonymous podcast on Instagram or X, follow me at Strict Anonymous. If you want to be on the show, it's called...

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15.286 - 37.817 Kathy Kay

strictly anonymous because I change everybody's voices and everyone's name so if you have an interesting naughty secret life or even just regular not so naughty life that you want to talk about while remaining anonymous or not anonymous if you're out and proud that's cool too you can be on the show I also look for like health related stories now I have a sexual health Saturday so

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37.797 - 57.787 Kathy Kay

So if you have any kind of interesting health story, I love stuff like that health and fitness story. You could send me an email at strictly anonymous podcast at gmail.com or just go to my website, strictly anonymous podcast.com and click on be on the show. If you have a naughty confession that you want to leave on my confessions hotline, you could do that 24 seven. The number is 347-420-3579.

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57.807 - 72.663 Kathy Kay

That's 347-420-3579. 420-3579. Some of those confessions make it onto a confessions episode and I talk about them. The rest of them all go up on my Patreon. My Patreon is a great place.

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72.683 - 92.844 Kathy Kay

Listen, if you're annoyed with these beginning intros and you don't want to hear effing ads and you want to see a hot picks of all the females who have called into my show, plus take part in all of the polls and questions and contests we have over on my Patreon, join my Patreon for just $7 a month. That's like super cheap. I also throw in a complimentary link Link to my private Discord.

94.066 - 114.618 Kathy Kay

My Discord is great. I do throw in complimentary access to my private Discord if you join my Patreon. Like I said, it's just $7 a month and you could cancel at any time or you could buy my book. I have a book. It's called Strictly Anonymous Confessions, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audio book.

114.698 - 135.287 Kathy Kay

It's still not going to be out till August 25th, but you can pre-order it. The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show, told in the third person. They're quick, short stories. Think like Penthouse Forum letters or naughty, true stories all in one book. If you get my book on Amazon or wherever you buy books, you could get it

135.267 - 155.918 Kathy Kay

Send me a screenshot of your order and I'll also give you complimentary access to my private Discord. My Discord is effing great. That's where you could go in and post your own stuff. My Discord is super fun. People get very naughty on there. We have lots of contests, tons of different channels with all kinds of content, but it is private and I only give links to either my guests.

156.018 - 177.129 Kathy Kay

If you call into the show, you get a link to my Discord or get my book or join my Patreon. You get it from all that. Last thing I want to tell you about is if you are looking to get into the lifestyle, the site I recommend to everybody is SDC.com. SDC.com is like the world's largest online adult dating site, but it's so much more than a dating site. It's more than a pickup place, okay?

Chapter 2: How did Marie transition from a vanilla relationship to hotwifing?

853.872 - 874.8 Kathy Kay

kind of see where I was at with things and and going from there I mean listen it's very true that in the whole lifestyle world and this just because you sleep with other people you have threesomes doesn't mean you're in the lifestyle but even in swinger clubs and hotel takeovers and situations like this with threesomes where it's just in a private room like

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it the it typically is that the woman does sort of take the lead like you gotta go by the woman timeline and stuff right i mean and that is the one world where like it is kind of like you know they're hanging by what what you know what you say or what you do right and women are not ones that just like jump on it right away right like i always say and a lot of times it's the guys that are

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are that are successful are the ones who play the long game with their woman you have to wait a while a woman doesn't just like hear this the words i'm just like yeah i can't wait you know i mean like we're just not wired that way like i would have a million questions like you did too and that so for so how did he go about though finding a guy that you would be comfortable with and down uh so he had uh said that you know of course when he was when he first introduced the idea that you know he had seen some information like on different websites

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929.371 - 952.201 Marie

And, you know, yes, this is kind of dating as far as how far back this was. Craigslist? Adult Friend Finder. Oh, okay. Yeah. Was a site that we had used. And, oh, my gosh, that was, like, sifting through garbage to find, like, the tiniest piece of, like, usable.

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You're kidding. Why? What kind of garbage was on there? Like, fake profiles?

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1003.514 - 1006.259 Kathy Kay

Files, fake people, or just like people that are sending dick pics?

Chapter 3: What were Marie's initial feelings about her husband's hotwifing suggestion?

1015.934 - 1039.033 Marie

And honestly, still to this day, I'm like, unless we have a report, do not send me your dick. So like, there was a lot of those. There was a lot of messages that would just even start off with like, Hey, you know, I'd fuck her. And I'm like, would you walk up to a woman at a bar and use that line? Like, come on. You know, and so there's just like, I get it.

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1039.173 - 1042.639 Marie

Like, you know, that's what you're looking for on this, but like.

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1043.041 - 1063.56 Kathy Kay

guys just have no game whatsoever yeah that's the problem they don't get it i do i can't tell you by the way marie how many like bull episodes i do and i have to say out of all the people the players in this kind of scenario the hot wife the cuck the stag the bull Those are the most lowest downloaded episodes I get are the bull ones.

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And I don't understand why, because those are the ones that people need to listen to if they ever want to be the guy, you know, with you, right? That gets you because these guys know how to fucking get the guy's girl and how to make the women feel comfortable. Like you said, there's so many of them are so clueless, right? Yep. Yep. There's an art to it.

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Like you have to know how to please the woman and also be cool with the guy. I mean, there's so much that goes into it. But for you, you're like that, that what would work for a guy, you know, everyone's typically projecting, right?

Chapter 4: What was Marie's experience with her first hookup as a hotwife?

1096.239 - 1105.314 Kathy Kay

So the guy thinks like that one line that would work for him, by the way, it doesn't work for the woman. Do you know what I'm saying? Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Yeah.

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1105.334 - 1129.999 Marie

And a lot of guys, they kind of forget that it's like, Okay, the husband is like your biggest ally. Totally. So you need to have him on board. Yeah. Do not alienate him. Yeah, be cool. So, you know, we went through a bunch of profiles. I don't recall if he had done like any swinger sites or anything like that. But AFF is actually where... we found the first guy.

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1203.092 - 1225.923 Kathy Kay

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1226.103 - 1239.3 Kathy Kay

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1240.563 - 1262.757 Marie

And so funny story with that is, gosh, I was playing this like anonymous app. I think it was called Battle Friends where it's kind of like Battleship and you could just play with people anonymously and you could send little messages. And anyways, this guy started like flirting with me and my husband's like, well, yeah, flirt back with him.

1263.243 - 1291.613 Marie

and of course I've got nothing I'm like I don't know how to flirt like you and I have been together so long like I don't know how to do this and so you know fast forward talking with this guy and we're flirting back and forth and then we're supposed to have this like kind of like a FaceTime session because I was like all dressed in lingerie and whatnot and anyways he had to flake and so I was kind of bummed and so my husband's like hey like just

Chapter 5: How did Marie and her husband navigate finding new partners?

3758.108 - 3775.333 Kathy Kay

You could put videos. You could put sexy pics, like anything goes on Discord and it's a private place, but I have like 6,000 people on there. So definitely go in there. Make sure to sign up with Shared Utah Wife so people could find you on there. But people will definitely go check out your acts and follow you over there as well. But send me those pictures sooner than later, okay?

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3776.134 - 3788.908 Kathy Kay

I love your whole story. All right, yeah. Thank you so much for having me on. It was so much fun getting to chat with you. Well, listen, like I said, I just, there's certain people that stand out to me and I just know them and I know their names because I see them. I don't know.

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3788.968 - 3805.465 Kathy Kay

And for some reason I know you and have known you for a while and you tried to call in once and then you couldn't call in whatever, but I'm so glad that we finally made it work and you finally came on. So, you know, if you ever do start up an OnlyFans in the future, you could come back on and promote that as well. But I'm sure you'll get followers from this call anyway.

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3805.445 - 3816.819 Kathy Kay

And anyone that follows you, I have to say when content creators come on, like, you know, even though you're not like you do have a platform on X, right? You have like tons of people following you, though. They're going to love to hear your story.

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3816.839 - 3831.836 Kathy Kay

You don't mean like it's like they probably feel like they know you already a little bit like they see one part of you, you know, but they really do love hearing this kind of stuff, you know, all the details you gave me. So they're going to love hearing your story. And then you're going to get a lot of new fans from your story as well. So thanks so much for calling in.

3831.856 - 3833.258 Kathy Kay

This was super fun to talk to you.

3834.537 - 3838.344 Marie

Yes. Well, thank you again for having me and I'm glad we made it work.

3838.825 - 3865.33 Kathy Kay

Yes, totally. Thanks so much for calling in Marie. Bye. Have a nice day. Thank you. Bye. Okay. I just want to tell you before you go that my book, it's called Strictly Anonymous Confessions, Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. is now available not only in paperback and ebook, but you can pre-order the audio book. It's still not going to be out till August 25th, but you can pre-order it.

3865.47 - 3890.521 Kathy Kay

The book is basically 17 different stories taken from my show. I kind of picked one story from each category that I talk about on my show. Like there's a hot wife story. There's a cuck queen story. There's a cuck story. There's a gangbang girl story. Like I said, 17 stories. And they're all told in the third person. And they're all true. I took the interview and rewrote it in the third person.

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