Mark Groves

Did our generation not have cool terms? Like breadcrumbing, there's like zombieing where they disappear and then they come back from the dead.

They're gone.

They're gone.

They're gone.

Breadcrumbing is really interesting. I would argue that breadcrumbing likely exists more from an avoidantly attached perspective or disorganized, but that it is like... I'm just gonna give you enough. I would say that it's people who are not ready for a relationship. So it's a pretty good orange slash red flag.

Breadcrumbing is really interesting. I would argue that breadcrumbing likely exists more from an avoidantly attached perspective or disorganized, but that it is like... I'm just gonna give you enough. I would say that it's people who are not ready for a relationship. So it's a pretty good orange slash red flag.

Breadcrumbing is really interesting. I would argue that breadcrumbing likely exists more from an avoidantly attached perspective or disorganized, but that it is like... I'm just gonna give you enough. I would say that it's people who are not ready for a relationship. So it's a pretty good orange slash red flag.

You know, whenever anyone says, like, believe their actions, not their words, I'm like, no, no, no, no. If their words and actions don't match, that's the orange flag. Because, you know, you'll have someone who says, I don't want a relationship, but treats you like a boyfriend or girlfriend. That doesn't mean they actually want you to be their boyfriend or girlfriend.

You know, whenever anyone says, like, believe their actions, not their words, I'm like, no, no, no, no. If their words and actions don't match, that's the orange flag. Because, you know, you'll have someone who says, I don't want a relationship, but treats you like a boyfriend or girlfriend. That doesn't mean they actually want you to be their boyfriend or girlfriend.

You know, whenever anyone says, like, believe their actions, not their words, I'm like, no, no, no, no. If their words and actions don't match, that's the orange flag. Because, you know, you'll have someone who says, I don't want a relationship, but treats you like a boyfriend or girlfriend. That doesn't mean they actually want you to be their boyfriend or girlfriend.

And that's where I think we can get lost in that. The breadcrumbing is like, I'm just gonna give you enough to keep you close, but I'm never going to be fully emotionally available to you. I'm never gonna be relationally fully available to you. For people who are on the other side of it, it's usually because they actually, through likely their childhood, just got enough from a parent.

And that's where I think we can get lost in that. The breadcrumbing is like, I'm just gonna give you enough to keep you close, but I'm never going to be fully emotionally available to you. I'm never gonna be relationally fully available to you. For people who are on the other side of it, it's usually because they actually, through likely their childhood, just got enough from a parent.

And that's where I think we can get lost in that. The breadcrumbing is like, I'm just gonna give you enough to keep you close, but I'm never going to be fully emotionally available to you. I'm never gonna be relationally fully available to you. For people who are on the other side of it, it's usually because they actually, through likely their childhood, just got enough from a parent.

And could be that their needs were met with wants, which is pretty common. So like if I need a connection from my father, but he bought me gifts, And so we actually learn to meet our needs for connection with meeting wants. And you see this a lot relationally where people are dating and things are not going well and all of a sudden they go on a lavish vacation.

And could be that their needs were met with wants, which is pretty common. So like if I need a connection from my father, but he bought me gifts, And so we actually learn to meet our needs for connection with meeting wants. And you see this a lot relationally where people are dating and things are not going well and all of a sudden they go on a lavish vacation.

And could be that their needs were met with wants, which is pretty common. So like if I need a connection from my father, but he bought me gifts, And so we actually learn to meet our needs for connection with meeting wants. And you see this a lot relationally where people are dating and things are not going well and all of a sudden they go on a lavish vacation.

And then things are getting back to the, you know, the truth is coming out again and then they get engaged. And then the truth comes out again and then they get married. And then the truth comes out again and they have a baby. And then they do that again till eventually

And then things are getting back to the, you know, the truth is coming out again and then they get engaged. And then the truth comes out again and then they get married. And then the truth comes out again and they have a baby. And then they do that again till eventually

And then things are getting back to the, you know, the truth is coming out again and then they get engaged. And then the truth comes out again and then they get married. And then the truth comes out again and they have a baby. And then they do that again till eventually

Ideally the person who keeps getting because that's you know, some form of breadcrumbing It's like I'm never going to be fully aligned with you and I think for people who are really felt inconsistency from a parent, that becomes just a familiar model. Like, it's like activating the wound. Will I ever be enough for you to fully choose me?