Mary

When I want to have a deep conversation, he doesn't lean into it.

like his with his natural withdrawal, like he'll still stay in the conversation, even if it makes him uncomfortable.

And I feel like that says a lot because I've known so many people that you can't even have like a deep conversation with.

Like, for example, like when we had our first kiss, like he wouldn't initiate the first kiss until like I was ready.

So I was the one who initiated that.

No.

Okay.

So I'll be like another red flag.

He has not disclosed that to me yet.

But at the same time, I feel like if I was like an SO, then I don't know.

I think it'd be possible that I would also have like this paralyzing here.

And then plus we have, we still have certain things to like talk through that, that like,

I don't know.

I feel like getting to know each other more, like if we're actually going to be compatible long terms in terms of like what we want, how we're going to deal with certain kind of conflicts and all that stuff.

And yeah, so we're.

Well, when I'm with him, I feel like occasionally I get annoyed because sometimes he is a little too by the book.

For example, we went to the grocery store and someone had left behind a dollar.

And in my head, I was like, we can use that one dollar towards our groceries.

But then he insisted that we give the dollar.

No, the conversation definitely needs to happen.